Re: men chase my H - help
Use of a strap on in a male female relationship does not mean the man is bi or gay. Lots of men love it when their prostate gland is stimulated....it triggers some VERY intense orgasms. Too many guys get caught up in the stigma associated with anal sex/ men. My H and I were just talking about this, and we are both very open to the idea of a strap on. It would definitely be a reversal of power in our relationship, and I've been looking around and there are double dildo strap on's...so we could both be getting off at the same time.
What?>>> maybe your husband just has a certain look that attracts gays. Same thing happens to my H sometimes, we have a friend that would prolly jump at the chance to be with BOTH of us, and he is male. It would never happen, but because my H has not tried to strangle him over it, the friend feels comfortable enough to let a joke or innuendo slide once in a while. However, if its a situation that makes YOU uncomfortable, you and your H need to come to an understanding that he needs to lay out some specific boundaries with your non- hetero friends. I myself have always been a lesbian magnet, but i'm just not interested, but it does not offend either me or my H.