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I am wondering how many women go through this. My wife is now 35 and had 2 kids. She has always been the type to hold things in and not expose her true feelings show that often. How do I put this. My wife tells me all the time she gets really wet. All the time but has no clue why. She needs to wear panty liners or she would soak through. I ask her why and she doesn't know. I am wondering if it possible that her body could be telling her she is horny and her mind not know?? Just today she text me that she is hory and wet. I asked her what she was thinking about and she said nothing. So is it sex or is it just her body?? Since I am a guy I have no clue. To me I thought they went hand in hand. Since she won't talk about it I might as well see how many women have seen or experienced this.
I know of other women who are like this (not me though, except certain times of the month and then it has to do with ovulation) and I do not believe it has anything to do with sex.
really so she might be right when she tells me she isn't thinking about sex. I really thought the 2 went together. Though I know about her ovulation. She tends to get more horny during that time.. It's a different type of wet though. From what I have seen its a different consistancy.. I like it more.
I've heard of this happening and it could be hormonal changes due to a pre- pre-menopause state. I have the exact opposite problem... I'm in my 40's and when I AM really turned on, I have almost no wetness. It's just how my body is reacting to hormonal changes... nothing to do with sex drive or what's going on in my mind.
I am wondering how many women go through this. My wife is now 35 and had 2 kids. She has always been the type to hold things in and not expose her true feelings show that often. How do I put this. My wife tells me all the time she gets really wet. All the time but has no clue why. She needs to wear panty liners or she would soak through. I ask her why and she doesn't know. I am wondering if it possible that her body could be telling her she is horny and her mind not know?? Just today she text me that she is hory and wet. I asked her what she was thinking about and she said nothing. So is it sex or is it just her body?? Since I am a guy I have no clue. To me I thought they went hand in hand. Since she won't talk about it I might as well see how many women have seen or experienced this.
lol at being horny and her mind not realizing...impossible. She is thinking about it. Probably watching porn or seen something that turned her on. I am like this and Im 29. Most of the time my husband is not around. Thats when Im most horny. However, I do have a piercing which contributes to my problem.
I honestly think she is thinking about sex she probablay just not confortable in talking about it.
We are very open about our sex talk. She keeps telling me she doesn't know why.. Sometimes she texts me I'm horny and I am dripping wet.. I ask her what she was thinking about and she says nothing.. She said she just feeels it.. This happened yesterday at work so I doubt it was porn..
As for the piercing I better not let her get on then. She thought about it. Can't imagine it worse.. LOL..
lol I do the same thing with my husband...we are very open with our sex talk as well even though he has somethings he is not really open about and Im just too open.
you should let her get a piercing....its fun! I love mine and cant imagine life before it hahahahaha
yes i can feel wet and horne for no apparent reason , different times of the month and its crazy , i dont have to be thinking or watching anything just have a inner urge to make out . hormones i guess
yes i can feel wet and horne for no apparent reason , different times of the month and its crazy , i dont have to be thinking or watching anything just have a inner urge to make out . hormones i guess
Same here, doesn't have to be induced by any outside influences...just my body telling me "I need some"!
This caught my attention because you mentioned that your wife will call or text you and tell you what is going on. My wife used to do the same - until I brought to her attention that it was interesting that it almost always happened in the afternoon, when I obviously wasn't, and couldn't be there. The feeling didn't carry over til I got home.
This caught my attention because you mentioned that your wife will call or text you and tell you what is going on. My wife used to do the same - until I brought to her attention that it was interesting that it almost always happened in the afternoon, when I obviously wasn't, and couldn't be there. The feeling didn't carry over til I got home.
It's the same for my wife. Then fatigue would set in and she would crash and burn by the time I could do anything. It is interesting to see that there are a lot of women that get wet and are not thinking about sex. Seems to be there head isn't insync with their body.. interesting stuff.
I'm more horney when I'm ovulating. I guess my body knows that this is the best time to have a baby so it makes me want sex more.
Generally, I want sex more in the morning when I'm just waking up and I have a lot of energy. I woke hubby up just this morning so I could get some before work!
This is interesting to read that im not the only one that gets horny when my hubby isnt around.. I dont know why.. and also get that way for no reason somtimes...
Yup, that's pretty much right. Ovulation = i am horny all the time out of nothing, even if i don't think about sex. Sometimes even another man being around (which i don't even like) can make me horny, without doing nothing.
When it comes to me, at least, wetness isn't necesarily linked to being horny. I can be wet and not horny, or very horny and not wet, or horny and wet.
It has nothing to do with head not being in sync with the body. It's a feeling. Like when you get an itch on your arm all of a sudden. Same with that, you're just sitting there, minding your own business and suddenly you start feeling wet and horny. Yeah, sure, sex most of the time starts in the mind, but sometimes it just starts down below and the head follows :P
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