We have been married from 1.3 years.My husband is very unaffectionate and uncaring person.He is very unromantic.He doesn't like anything which is romantic.In 1st 3 months of our married life we had sex for 4-5 times.That too it was not much exciting.He just finished that as a duty.After that there is no sex life till today.Many times I tried to talk to him.I told him to share his feelings and problems any so that we can talk and resolve it.Or can take a treatment.He just says he doesn't have any problem.He don't talk to me freely.Whenever I open that topic he gets angry and starts shouting at me.I was always very polite with him and I am very friendly too and ready to share anything and everything.I told him we will consult marriage Councillors or sex therapists but he says he doesn't want to come n he doesn't have any problem.Not even single time he talks to me about that freely.Other then Kiss we don't do anything.
After 8 months of our marriage twice he went to abroad and now also he is in abroad.I am in India.Being away from each other also doesn't bother him.He is not caring and loving.He shows no interest to talk.Absolutely no Romantic talks.He is very much practical and thinks money is everything and interested in luxury life then Happy life.
I am frustrated..I am beautiful..have a good job too..I am very caring,affectionate and have high sex drive too. more then a year of frustrated life I have faced..I feel I am so lonely and he doesn't love me and doesn't show little affection also...
Whenever I talk that I am fed up of these things if you continue like this I will get divorce.But that also he misunderstands that and say if you need that go ahead and take.I am trying fix the things in all the way.But its of no use.He is not bothered about anything...It hurts a lot.
I have told him million times that we need to talk like a best friends and share everything so that we will not have any misunderstandings and can live happily by understanding each other's emotional and physical needs.But he never listen.
I feel I am just wasting my life for someone who is not deserved for me.I still want to save our relationship but don't know how