11-06-2009, 11:29 AM
Join Date: Nov 2009
| | Re: Sexless Marriage - Need Advice
Thanks for the help, here's a reply to some of the questions;
Things have changed for me, I've gained weight, and some of that is due to low self esteem, which was generated by his rejection of me (sexually). This is the second marriage for both of us. I'm a professional, happy most of the time, energetic, I do home improvements as my hobby, he restores vehicles as his, I always take a shower each morning, put on make-up and get dressed, I care about how I look, so I always make sure that I'm at my best. We go out on Friday nights, go dancing, and have a good time. But when I bring up sex he just smiles and lets it go.
I agreed to go to the doctor, they tested him and he has nothing medically that is impacting his ability, including his testostorine levels. He was given viaga (sample and script), but he put them in the cabinet and never took them.
When I try to talk about it, he evades the issue. When we go out with friends he's very possessive and gets jealous. So I don't get it. I'm at a loss.
It's like I said, brother and sister, we have fun together, talk, go places, but no sex. I'm too young to never have sex again!!!