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Old 11-19-2009, 02:42 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default So, I'm at work and my wife just texted me this....

Her "I want you between my legs"
Me "I'm going to come home right now"
Her "No, the boys are home anyway, stay at work, we'll be having some fun tonight though"
Me "So what got you thinking about that? Are you wet sitting there?"
Her "IDK, we 'missed' last night and I'm horny today...and yes, EXTREMELY wet"
Me "So what plans do you have for tonight?"
Her "no plans, just whatever happens, happens"
Me "Come on, you're not this open usually with me and I love it, give a hint as to what you had in mind that got your horny"
Her "We might use electronics" (which I thought meant her vibrator)
Me "So where do you plan on using the 'electronics'"
Her "No, the type of electronics that records what we do..."

Oh my goodness, my wife has known for years that I've wanted to pull out the video recorder and make our own movie...then, all the sudden this past few days (Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday) we had the best sex we've had in years, she was going so crazy that in the middle of one of the seasons she made the comment "we could so make a movie as good as porn"...to which I replied "well you know I'd be up for it".

So, last night we "missed" because I lost track of time relaxing in the bath tub and she fell asleep in bed waiting on me...so my fault we didn't have a 4th night in a row of amazing sex.

So now, I'm sitting here at work with a hard on thinking about tonight with my wife...good Lord how to women do that to us men?

She definitely gets an "A+" for being that "hot wife" today .
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Old 11-19-2009, 04:01 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Yes, your wife rocks.

My husband is dying for me to let him video tape us. Maybe in a few years or after I shed a few pounds! LOL!
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Old 11-20-2009, 03:27 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Would be hard to concentrate on anything after a text like that.
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Old 11-20-2009, 03:40 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Oh it was, it was hard to concentrate on anything the rest of the day until it all went down...it was a fun night!
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Old 11-20-2009, 04:32 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Lucky man!! You're wife sounds awesome!!
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Old 11-20-2009, 09:29 PM   #6 (permalink)
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She'll probably find that she really enjoys it, RH. I was very reluctant to making home movies. I now enjoy watching them to get me going. I get very excited watching us together. There's something about home movies that makes a woman unleash a different part of herself. I think it makes us feel empowered and sexy.
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You're all giving me ideas - And heaven knows we could use the money
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Old 11-21-2009, 02:58 PM   #8 (permalink)
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wow, you guys are very fortunate that you are in a great place with your wives. im workin on it, but mine is just very prudish
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Old 11-23-2009, 10:43 AM   #9 (permalink)
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wow, you guys are very fortunate that you are in a great place with your wives. im workin on it, but mine is just very prudish
I love my wife, but this was exactly my wife about 1.5 years ago. Very prudish, lights had to be out, had to be at night, only a couple positions, no BJs, etc.

She hit 30 and it was like a light bulb went off in the sexual part of her brain and all kinds of fun things have happened since then...(hency the name revitalizedhusband).

Even went out "parking" one night in a wooded area and did it in our car...was a good time.
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Old 11-23-2009, 11:28 AM   #10 (permalink)
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I feel very much the same i find sending text messages and writing note so much easier to do then to say the same thing out loud ... have a hang up about saying i want you now !! ..
but yes i defo want more sex now im a little older , i enjoy it more to
Couldnt even tell you why but ive been exaclty the same and im loving it to ( must be a age thing ) hormones etc
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I feel very much the same i find sending text messages and writing note so much easier to do then to say the same thing out loud ... have a hang up about saying i want you now !! ..
but yes i defo want more sex now im a little older , i enjoy it more to
Couldnt even tell you why but ive been exaclty the same and im loving it to ( must be a age thing ) hormones etc
My wife sounds just like you, she said its easier to send a text. She officially still "initiates" without having to say it out loud. She also knows it will get me going and I'll definitely move it to the next level after she initiates.

For instance, a couple weeks ago she was up in bed and I was playing a video game. She felt weird coming downstairs to tell me to get upstairs and screw her brains out, but thats the exact text she sent me even though I was in the same house (the exact text was 'get up here and screw my brains out').

I obviously was much enthused with her initiative and turned the video game off...
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sounds just like me !! would you like her to ask you though or do you like the texts ? i would like to say face to face ..but it just wont come out and i end up stuttering , but saying that have in the past wanted sex and not sent a text or a note and hes gone to sleep not picking up my weak signals , so im glad i can text
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Old 11-23-2009, 02:31 PM   #13 (permalink)
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face to face>text>weak signals

So the text is much better than going to bed while your wife is horny but can't tell you, but face to face would still be even a BIGGER turn on.
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I think so to ,i would love to beable to just say it lol

would love to know why i can must be something deep down inside holding me back lol
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try video ,,,, video yourself asking him to drag you to bed and tell him to play it might be a step in the right direction x
Text takes away any inabitions its easy but it works ,your getting what you want just work on it x
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