Need advice from ladies

AlexNY · 12-13-2009, 12:03 PM

I posted this in the women's section, but it did not take:

Man needs advice on technique

In a anutshell, any ladies have advice on oral technique.

Thanks

Star · 12-13-2009, 12:13 PM

I can't see that there is much wrong with your technique as you can give her an O and each woman is different so what floats my boat might not float hers I personally like a bit more pressure when he goes down on me rather than feather like strokes and I also prefer rapid flicking of the tongue rather than figure of 8 movements

Star · 12-13-2009, 12:16 PM

Sorry I forgot to say that I love it when he uses his tongue in side me, god I can't tell you how good that feels.

artieb · 12-13-2009, 04:48 PM

I posted this link in your other discussion too, on the strength of my wife's generally positive reaction:

Cunnilingus Guides from alt.sex.wizards

FLgirl · 12-23-2009, 11:46 AM

probably most women are not responding because A) it's a bit embarrassing to talk about, and B) I'm not 100% sure whats going on down there from a technique point of view... I'm lost in the feeling, not in watching technique.

I can say this... focus on her clit primarily. But don't attack it, at least not a first. Start of slow and gentle like your rolling your tongue around a small lollipop. Slowly start to increase your pressure and speed. Also I enjoy it when hubby mixes up the tempo fast, fast, fast, then suddenly stops and blows on me, then slow long licks with his tongue flat, then gentle sucking then fast swirling motion. you get the idea... damn is it hot in here? Also I usually can't O if there are competing sensations... so I insist he keep his fingers out of the play. In contrast, if I'm in a particularly naughty mood, some lite anal penetration while he is going down, can make me see God.

Oh, and don't get insulted if she is not willing to go for #2. I often insist on sex after a really good O. In fact I can get a little violent if Hubby is playing hard to get at that moment. He usually enjoys this and the handcuffs usually come out at this point. Whoo hoo - have fun cowboy!!

Star · 12-23-2009, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by FLgirl

probably most women are not responding because A) it's a bit embarrassing to talk about, and B) I'm not 100% sure whats going on down there from a technique point of view... I'm lost in the feeling, not in watching technique.

I can say this... focus on her clit primarily. But don't attack it, at least not a first. Start of slow and gentle like your rolling your tongue around a small lollipop. Slowly start to increase your pressure and speed. Also I enjoy it when hubby mixes up the tempo fast, fast, fast, then suddenly stops and blows on me, then slow long licks with his tongue flat, then gentle sucking then fast swirling motion. you get the idea... damn is it hot in here? Also I usually can't O if there are competing sensations... so I insist he keep his fingers out of the play. In contrast, if I'm in a particularly naughty mood, some lite anal penetration while he is going down, can make me see God.

Oh, and don't get insulted if she is not willing to go for #2. I often insist on sex after a really good O. In fact I can get a little violent if Hubby is playing hard to get at that moment. He usually enjoys this and the handcuffs usually come out at this point. Whoo hoo - have fun cowboy!!

FLgirl, I like your style!! get a little violent!! I so know what your mean