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Ok, so I posted before that my H had 'fallen once' to receive a bj from a man. In fact he 'fell' to that man multiple times across a long period of time. He claims he was always wasted on drugs when it happened. My questions:
1. He knowingly went back again and again. Is he gay? (He swears he isn't and hates to think about it. I do believe that he hasn't done that again and that particular relationship is definitely over.)
2. He loves butts. Does anyone here believe that he would be in this drugged out/recipient-only situation over a period of time and NOT go further with this guy? Like to HIS behind?
Can't believe this is part of my life...
Help. Really need perspective please?
nothing would make me recieve sex acts from another man, absolutely positively nothing. and i somewhat disagree with the coke/horny scenario, i think it works in the opposite and erection is difficult to achieve
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nothing would make me recieve sex acts from another man, absolutely positively nothing. and i somewhat disagree with the coke/horny scenario
really? nothing? how about a gun to your head, or one of your beloved? yeah, you'd give AND receive. not trying to be macabre, just to make a point. ask addicts of the fiend cocaine. they'll tell you the addiction is like being held hostage.
Originally Posted by okeydokie
i think it works in the opposite and erection is difficult to achieve
physically, it raises blood pressure for a short while. so maintaining an erection is pretty easy for a healthy man. the psychological effect is amazing. addicts spend the rest of their life trying to replicate the high. hence, the high risk behavior associated with coke.