I thought it would be good to kinda mimick Hubby's post on this forum about ladies who choose not to swallow so here goes....
Why do some men dislike giving oral to women? you are always hearing/reading about how men can't get enough of it, but there men out there that don't like it, so what is ti you don't like?, surely it's a huge turn on for any man to be that upfront and close to their lady? and ladies have you ever had a man who has refused to give oral, what was their reasons and how did this make you feel?
I'd love for men to answer this. went 15 yrs in marriage and can count the times my husband did this on one hand. now divorced - and can't wait for someone to do this with me. I gladdly swallow by the way. not a problem for me
I cant get enough, I'd go down on her for an hour. She would need to be somewhat freshly showerd though, like within the last couple of hours. I miss it now that were done.
No complaints here. She could ask anytime anywhere and I'm there; however, she doesn't even care for it... sometimes I do it anyway, perhaps for my own benefit. Sure wish she felt the same way about me.
Not sure about other men but I loved it. The whole experience from the senses to how she moved and the loss of control on her part. I'm hoping as I move on to other relationships that part will be as good.
Most guys who won't/rarely do will not post. They know it is shallow/lame to not give oral. And the ones who rarely do it are kind of lazy/selfish in my opinion.
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Originally Posted by Star
Well it seems to be all positive responses so far which is a good thing.
Most guys who won't/rarely do will not post. They know it is shallow/lame to not give oral. And the ones who rarely do it are kind of lazy/selfish in my opinion.
Lol!!! I did cross my mind too that those men who don't do would probably not post, but it would of been interesting to find out what it is that they don't like as I was just curious was it more the sight or taste that was off putting
I haven't done it for my wife in a very long time. I enjoy it and loved doing it when I was single. I think there's an intimacy factor there and when you aren't connecting with each other on a personal level it's hard to do that. It's just uncomfortable. It would help too if she'd indicate that she'd like it.
For what it's worth, I haven't received from her in years.
William sounds like you are in a sexless marriage. I feel for you..
I will do it for my wife anytime she is some what clean. She would never let me if she wasn't. I enjoy making her cum and she loves me doing it.
BTW she swallows too but not as often as I like. I wish she had the desire I do to make me happy as I do for her. I tihnk for a women she has to be mentally there for that to happen.
William sounds like you are in a sexless marriage. I feel for you..
I will do it for my wife anytime she is some what clean. She would never let me if she wasn't. I enjoy making her cum and she loves me doing it.
BTW she swallows too but not as often as I like. I wish she had the desire I do to make me happy as I do for her. I tihnk for a women she has to be mentally there for that to happen.
I think that if the lady is really into her man and feeling really hot then she is probably more likely to swallow, more for the effect it has on you rather than it's because it's something she likes the taste of.
Just out of curiosity, What is an average time for a man to cum during a BJ. I can't seem to quite get there and my wife gets really tired. Not sure what the problem is.
Beninyourshoes- I had to laugh at that post. Not cause of what you said but something I tell my wife.. I tell her I just need 5 minutes of your time.. She knows what that means cause I proved it to her. So I guess for me it' can be 5 minutes if I want too. I could go a long time if I choose to but it's about getting there in your head. Are you being distracted?? Are you focusing on other things? It's all mental..
After a shower (assuming for both of us) it is okay. Going down on a fat chick - not fun no matter when.
A little nervous when sex isn't so often since you never know when she is on the rag or not - so there is that factor. If a woman stops you and doesn't explain why - then you will be gunshy to never do it again. We get it - just say "can you do that... tomorrow..." or "I would love that... next week..."
A guy could care less if she "swallows" however - the whole point no one ever mentions is that once the dude "cums" - it is super sensitive and feels so damn good with a tongue - as opposed to a woman giving him a hand job - once it pops - then leave it alone - only the warm, moist mouth feels as good. So - fine spit it out if you don't like the taste - but finish or keep going - but the feeling lasts a maximum for 30-60 seconds.
Men that choose not to..........
