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Old 12-18-2009, 10:04 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I am curious to know what Flavor of porn most men generally want to watch - and why? (turns you on, gives you ideas with your partner, please explain). My husband is very tame in comparison I think to what most men desire in this area, so this is why I am asking. His choice is always "just women", strippers, women on the beach, in showers, posing, naked. Are there others out there who Choose this over seeing Men & women doing it together? He'll watch that with me but he gets more turned on when the Man is not in the scene at all, he is always saying he does not care to see any men.

As a woman, I seek the Romantic sensual scenes that are just a man & a woman who seem to have a love connection, the more erotic the better, but I know these are darn hard to find in Porn , I am more likely to find what I truly want in Unrated or R rated movies.

So what do you guys like ?
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Old 12-18-2009, 10:21 AM   #2 (permalink)
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My favorite is basic man and woman. I will watch a girl/girl scene or a girl striping/playing, but a couple is the best for me. I even prefer it to threesome scene. If I do watch a threesome, I prefer FFM.

As far as types of sex the couple does, I like it all. Nice and sensual to rough and hard, depends on my mood really. I do not really get into whips or over the top BDSM. Don't get into many fetishes like feet, pee, or the like.

My favorite is a couple in the POV perspective.
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Old 12-20-2009, 10:33 AM   #3 (permalink)
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My favorite is basic man and woman. I will watch a girl/girl scene or a girl striping/playing, but a couple is the best for me. I even prefer it to threesome scene. If I do watch a threesome, I prefer FFM.

As far as types of sex the couple does, I like it all. Nice and sensual to rough and hard, depends on my mood really. I do not really get into whips or over the top BDSM. Don't get into many fetishes like feet, pee, or the like.

My favorite is a couple in the POV perspective.
Wow, no point in writing more because this is my taste exactly.
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Old 12-23-2009, 04:47 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I am curious to know what Flavor of porn most men generally want to watch - and why? (turns you on, gives you ideas with your partner, please explain). My husband is very tame in comparison I think to what most men desire in this area, so this is why I am asking. His choice is always "just women", strippers, women on the beach, in showers, posing, naked. Are there others out there who Choose this over seeing Men & women doing it together? He'll watch that with me but he gets more turned on when the Man is not in the scene at all, he is always saying he does not care to see any men.

As a woman, I seek the Romantic sensual scenes that are just a man & a woman who seem to have a love connection, the more erotic the better, but I know these are darn hard to find in Porn , I am more likely to find what I truly want in Unrated or R rated movies.

So what do you guys like ?
One thing about porn is that it is geared to the primary sexual sense of men-- the visual, and this is one reason it is so stimulating to them.

The second thing is that it provides men with another thing they love, sexual variety, which is why married men like it so much.

Now guys may have their porn preferences but with every single sex act and combination of people engaged in those acts freely available on the internet, few men will watch just one thing over and over. What the internet has done is broaden people's sexual interests by introducing them to types of sex that they might otherwise never experience and most men are very sexually curious.

Women's porn is completely different in that it is geared to a woman's primary sexual sense which is more cerebral and responds to the intimacy between the couple on the screen. In other words the stuff men fast forward past so they can get to the main event...lol

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Old 12-25-2009, 08:21 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Mr B, you didn't answer what you prefer, you just mention "the main event", I take that to mean you want to watch MEN and WOMEN together? I assume most men prefer to see both instead of JUST the woman alone? Anymore men out there who prefer to see JUST naked women over the "main event"???
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Old 12-25-2009, 11:32 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Ok you sucked me in.
In the order of preference
MFM (the idea of a woman being both submissive and pleasured by two)
MF (This is very good as long as it sensual or the agressive level is mutual)
FMF (nice once in a while,and better when FF contact)
FF (if very sensual)
F (If extremely hot and sensual)

Frequency that I would watch porn is sporadic, (comes in spurts, sometimes not at all and sometimes frequently)

Criteria for all scenes is that is needs to be "nice" meaning not aggressive or demeaning to the woman in any way. If its like that i simply cannot watch.
I do share with my woman and she likes the same things. It sometimes does produce basis or ideas for our own fantasies.

Is that detailed and comprehensive enough?

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Old 12-25-2009, 02:14 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Here's one I liked: Google Groups
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Mr B, you didn't answer what you prefer, you just mention "the main event", I take that to mean you want to watch MEN and WOMEN together?
I like anything where you don't see any men in it, especially multiple men. How straight guys can sit there and watch gang bangs, DP's and cum bangs is beyond me....too many hairy asses and penises for my taste. POV is better.
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Old 12-25-2009, 05:53 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I don't really know what porn my husband is into. I think the Victoria's Secret Catalog is pretty much his favorite porn. It gets a lot of attention when it turns up, that's for sure.

I like FF porn. Sometimes MF but I'm not into stuntc0cks and all that drilling. Watching women get it on is just so sexy though.
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Old 12-28-2009, 02:14 PM   #10 (permalink)
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I enjoy MF porn, preferrably real amateur couples going at it. Don't really dig a solo female.

I like watching oral - especially 69 when the woman orgasms and/or where the woman swallows when the guy cums.

Also enjoy any sex/intercourse clips where the woman cums while having sex (usually you can tell if it's genuine in an amateur clip). Videos where the man finished inside the woman - and not the pro videos where the guy just leaves the tip of his unit in.

Also enjoy POV view porn (pro or amateur)... it's like you're in the driver's seat

I hate it when a video finishes with a facial because it seems fake to me. What woman would enjoy that I don't know (I'm sure there are some out there though)
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FMF
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MFMF
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Sounds like Mr. B is similar to my husband, but you guys are in the rarity with only wanting to see females . I surely agree with women wanting to see the emotional connection, the sensual side of porn, I find that I enjoy a Sexy R rated movie over almost any porn I have found. Even the PLayGirl stuff is so geared towards Raw lust with strangers- leaving out the heartfelt connection.
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Sounds like Mr. B is similar to my husband, but you guys are in the rarity with only wanting to see females . I surely agree with women wanting to see the emotional connection, the sensual side of porn, I find that I enjoy a Sexy R rated movie over almost any porn I have found. Even the PLayGirl stuff is so geared towards Raw lust with strangers- leaving out the heartfelt connection.
I agree with you I like R or not rated movies over hard core.
I like to see a story and connections between people.
Movies like
Zebra lounge
the big swap
etc one of my favorites.

which once do you like?
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I will have to check out those 2 movies you mentioned. One of my favorites is something called "Return to Two Moon Junction", I also liked Lady Chatterlys Lover, Intimacy, Forbidden, just to name a few. "The Notebook " is high on my list. Too sappy for most men! My husband does enjoy watching these sappy romances with me though. I am blessed that way. Oh I forget "Lie with me" --Love that one!

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I will have to check out those 2 movies you mentioned. One of my favorites is something called "Return to Two Moon Junction", I also liked Lady Chatterlys Lover, Intimacy, Forbidden, just to name a few. "The Notebook " is high on my list. Too sappy for most men! My husband does enjoy watching these sappy romances with me though. I am blessed that way. Oh I forget "Lie with me" --Love that one!
Forbidden: is nice but the only problem was people didnt act normal.
Intimacy is not bad.
Notebook is hell no.

I didnt see Chattelys lover.

The Blood oranges was not bad.
an older movie called PLAY TIME is very good.
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