She doesn't care about my family.

MsLonely · 02-09-2011, 11:13 PM

My maid has been working for my family for 10 months.
I treated her as my sister. When her husband cheated on her, she cried a lot, I was there to supported and comforted her. When she's in trouble, needs money, I went to withdraw money to help her right away. No needs to mention about x'mas gift and birthday gift.
She got fired by my husband because of lying.
She started to tell me some ugly stuffs, (I will share in my next comment) which she did behind.
I was sad and worrying after she goes home, she has not much money for supporting her kids, so I begged my husband to give her some money so at least she can survive for a while. My husband finally agreed but with a condition- If really she spent all her money for her divorced, and it's not a lie. She said, she will receive a separation(divorce) paper sent from philippines. So we're waiting to see that letter.
Anyway, money isn't the issue as long as she's not lying about she has no money.
Today, I asked her what work she's going to do when she go back to philippines. I asked if she will go back to sell fish. (If yes, I was thinking to give her more capital cash for her to buy fish to sell.)
Her answer has surprised me.
"No! I'm going to back to my band to sing and I can make so much money," laughed when she replied, "I'm not worrying at all because I can do so many things and make so much money!" She wanted to show me she didn't give a damn about the good salary she earned from my family.
I felt myself a dumb idiot. I wished her, "good luck! when you become famous and publish your first album, don't forget to send me your cd!"
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MsLonely · 02-09-2011, 11:30 PM

Some ugly stuffs she told me.
Last year, in Oct, my family went to italy and left her alone to take care of the house and dog.
At that time, the condo was doing some renovation work so there're many Indian workers from India at my condo. (They are maid-pickers)
She's not supposed to leave my house and leave my dog but she did.
She went around to get socialized, not only with Indian workers, but also other maids from different towers of the condo.
Then she said all the maids she knew there, were having sex trade with the workers.
They had sex at the staircase. (Ppl living in a building take the lift all the time, ppl don't use staircase)
She let me know the market price, SD$30 per fk. Then some workers also asked her if she wanted to make some extra money? She said she rejected them. She wanted to tell me she's a good girl because she's not like other maids. (It's obvious when she went around to get socialized telling ppl we're overseas and nobody's home. She let strangers know she's at home alone?
Even she never had sex trade with anyone, it's very dangerous!
After she told me such ugly stuffs, it confirmed me that my husband has done a right thing- fired her!
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MsLonely · 02-09-2011, 11:45 PM

Anyway, it's not news to know maids had sex at the staircase.
Hotel in Singapore is too expensive for those workers to afford. So the popular spot for having sex is the staircase of the building.
It's not news that maid earned extra money by having sex with workers.
2 of them were caught by the supervisor of the workers but I didn't know such ugly thing happened because we're overseas.
We have moved to a new condo since the new year.
Now I wonder why she told me such thing before she goes home?
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MsLonely · 02-09-2011, 11:58 PM

The only answer I can possibly think about is, she tried to warn me when I get my next maid? Her true meaning was "Hey dum dum, you can never find a good maid like me, just by looking how dirty other maids have done! Don't you know you're very lucky to employ me, I only told some lies, you already wanted to fire me? You have no idea how lucky you're!
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