Davelli0331:If a GNO, or alcohol, or an attractive coworker, or a past flame on FB were all that were needed for someone to cheat, then I think that person had that defect in their integrity all along. All they ever lacked was the opportunity to act on their lack of integrity and the circumstances required to rationalize it to themselves.
Too many good people gone for me to mention, even posters I didn't often see eye to eye with I miss. I think a forum needs all kinds, especially those that challenge our thinking or put us on the defensive at times. It reminds us of why we have the personal values we do.
You are a good person. I see you as 'mum' (UK). Bless you. @arbitrator as 'Dad'. Lol