Re: TAMers who have gone "missing"...
I think I am going to impose a 2 month vacation from TAM on myself. As was mentioned earlier, sometimes reading other people's posts trigger feelings I thought I got rid of.
I got a lot of good advice here, BigMama said something the other day in a post that helped me understand my wife a little better.
I need to work on forgiving my wife for some of the pain she put me thru. Things are much better than they have been, but I need to refocus for a while.
After today, I plan on a 2 month hard core workout routine, and re-evaluate where I want to be.
Thank you to everyone, opposing points of view help to sharpen the mind.