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post #1 of 76 (permalink) Old 06-23-2016, 09:20 PM Thread Starter
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I suggested to this woman we meet for ice cream and she said.....

she only accepts dinner invites??? lol

Is it because she has no stove at home and hungry? Isn't the first meet supposed to be brief so you can get a feel for the person. This woman is clearly a wackball anytime she is looking for dinner dates.

What the hell is wrong with meeting for ice cream and then walking and talking????????????

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Re: I suggested to this woman we meet for ice cream and she said.....

It's obvious she is lactose intolerant smg😁
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she only accepts dinner invites??? lol

Is it because she has no stove at home and hungry? Isn't the first meet supposed to be brief so you can get a feel for the person. This woman is clearly a wackball anytime she is looking for dinner dates.

What the hell is wrong with meeting for ice cream and then walking and talking????????????
Nothing wrong with it. She probably wants to assess your income based on where you take her and if you pick up the cheque.

Personally, I would have chosen ice cream, or coffee, over dinner while dating. So not all women are like this. Keep searching.
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It's obvious she is lactose intolerant smg😁
Very well done. Ha ha!
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Ice cream is unhealthy junk food. (Eating some as i type this)

Not suitable for a first date.
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Ice cream is unhealthy junk food. (Eating some as i type this)

Not suitable for a first date.
Try dating someone
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Re: I suggested to this woman we meet for ice cream and she said.....

You should have asked her out for gelato instead.
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Re: I suggested to this woman we meet for ice cream and she said.....

Some folks don't like the quickie drink or coffee or ice cream b/c they feel like they're being "Checked out" and don't like the lack of commitment it implies, and they also don't think a 30 minute is sufficient to begin to form an accurate impression

I'm not agreeing with this type of thought, just giving my HO on it. Anyways, if it's too risky for you to invest the time in a meal and she insists, it's a good indication that the two of you have much different perspectives on things from the beginning.
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It's obvious she is lactose intolerant smg��
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And a diabetic too...That was neon bright obvious SMG!

I am very surprised that that tidbit escaped you SMG. You are spot on on most of your assertions as to why possible dates are the way they are.

Good things come to those who wait...greater things come to those who get off their a$$ and do anything to make it happen.

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Re: I suggested to this woman we meet for ice cream and she said.....

Wow, I agree with SMG twice in one week. Ice cream, coffee, or similar seems like a good first date, a chance to meet in person casually and briefly without the expectation of having to sit though a whole dinner with someone who may turn out to be a wacko. If it goes well, you can always extend the date on the spot.


Passive aggressive and emotionally unavailable (whatever that means)

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Re: I suggested to this woman we meet for ice cream and she said.....

Perhaps she wanted a dinner she didn't have to cook herself!
Or perhaps a free dinner!
I thought you didn't like walking long distance with your dodgy knees!

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Re: I suggested to this woman we meet for ice cream and she said.....

Then you should invite her to your home and make dinner (or order a pizza!) and offer her beer or wine to go with it. Have ice cream for dessert, unless she wants to be.

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Try dating someone
That wouldn't be wise. His wife might get a little testy.

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Perhaps she wanted a dinner she didn't have to cook herself!
Or perhaps a free dinner!
I thought you didn't like walking long distance with your dodgy knees!

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Then you should invite her to your home and make dinner (or order a pizza!) and offer her beer or wine to go with it. Have ice cream for dessert, unless she wants to be.
I will try that and see what she says
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