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Post 'Dear Diary' thread, please feel free to add yours Dear Diary.

Hello, Happy New Year 2017 to everyone here in TAM and hope everyone having a great year ahead with your family and loved ones.
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I want to start this thread a 'Dear Diary' thread, please feel free to share/vent/talk about whatever you want. Is there something in your life that you want to vent about? Something going on in your life that you excited to share about?
Something bothering you or worry about? Something you happy or excited about? It can be anything--anything you want to share. You can write this Dear Diary to yourself, your spouse, family, children, to anyone..
Please feel more than free to add yours.. Looking forward to read everyone Dear Diary reponses/replies.

Thank you, and I will click Like all the comments/replies. I would love to Hug everyone Dear Diary entries, but there No 'Hug' button, only 'Like' button. So I will click Like instead as a Hug and Thank you.



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LONG& TMI(Regard something my DH did 10 years ago); just so hard for me to understand

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Dear diary,
We're not speaking again. A couple of days ago, I asked if he would let me see his work email. I know that this was going to happen and that he was going to pull away from me but he doesn't even realize that it's coming on the anniversary of when I found out that he was screwing her. It's going to be 5 years since I found out that he wasn't the person I thought he was. Five years ago when my heart was broken and it's still tattered and being held my by hopes that we can recapture what we once had.
There was nothing on the email but now I'm pissed that he is taking this as a sign that I don't trust him. Doesn't he know that trusting him is now my life's goal and I work at it every day. I said I've forgiven him but it still plays in my mind that he can do the things he does to my body to someone else. Does he thinks of her when we're together? Does the fact that he didn't end it until he was found out mean that it would still be going on? Am I second choice? I feel like I'm still going crazy and I will no longer be secured in my relationship with him. He didn't lose anything by what he did. ( just rambling, not looking for a response. Thanks ).

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Jasmine: totally understand what it's like to be a trucker's wife. Husband did trucking for 15 years of our marriage (freight, straight truck, roll off, towing for 8 years - oh the stories from towing).

I was playing married single parent for a long time and it sucked sometimes.

Marital: Totally understand your situation too. 4 years/5 years out from finding out isn't any easier here some days either. Just learn to cope better with it.

It's not something you ever really truly forget. Some days are easier than others and then there's the days that just plain suck.

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LONG& TMI(Regard something my DH did 10 years ago); just so hard for me to understand

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Dear diary,

I'm worried, but when am I ever not? Today I'm spending the weekend at home with my husband, just like every weekend. Hopefully almost every weekend for the rest of my life will be spent with him, at home, in relative safety. But I'm worried. I'm not even sure why this time. We have plenty of money for the time being, and our country's leader hasn't sentenced us all to internment camps yet. So I'm safe. For now.

I hate being afraid of things that COULD happen or MAY happen or probably WILL happen, especially if those things aren't happening now. It robs me of my ability to enjoy the time I do have, and I know one day I'll want happy memories to look back on, because there'll be no more hope for happiness at all one day in the future. I'm tired of having to work so hard to distract myself from the existential dread and the despair. I hate that even if I try as hard as I can to distract myself, I'm only ever not worried for a few minutes a day. How have I always lived like this?

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Dear Diary,

So far, 2017 sucks. My DD19 was sick for a month with a cold and stomach bug. My H has been having cluster headaches for 2 months now. Finally, found a doctor who knows what the f he is speaking about to treat my poor man. Now my son 18, has hemorrhoids. I kid you not. The boy told me his butt was hurting and he could not poop, so I decided to take a look and had to him to the emergency room. His eating habit sucks. He might require surgery if it does not go down. This is his last semester in high school.

And worst of all I had to quit my job to stay home and take care of these people. Dear Diary, that is why I am on TAM again.

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Dear Diary,

I hate the patriots. That lawsuit that finally finishes off the NFL can't come soon enough.
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Dear Diary, the last 3 men i dated all cheated on me with married women. The first one got infected with HIV from the married woman he had been sleeping with for over 10 years. The second one wouldn't let go of his married high school sweetheart. The third one (last year), we had barely even started dating before i found out that he was being inappropriate with a married woman.

Losing a man to a single woman hurts like crazy but finding out that you're in competition for a man's feelings with a married woman does another kind of damage to your insecurity.

I've stopped wearing make-up, stopped exercising, started eating ice-cream every night and i dress like i'm a homeless person. I was very attractive but i've turned myself into the Crypt keeper.

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