I am going to post some songs but first, *puts on old Nanna hat* I just feel the need to say, feel those emotions if you need but try not to let them consume you. Wallow for a bit, but then turn to things that help uplift you.
this song though, takes me to a certain thing I was upset about (unrelated to hubs, for the record). I love it and looped this song for days in my emotion. It doesn't even match the scenario I was upset over but I needed this song for some reason.
"......There are plenty of ways you can hurt a man
And bring him to the ground
You can beat him
You can cheat him
You can treat him bad and leave him
When he's down
But I'm ready, yes I'm ready for you
I'm standing on my own two feet
Out of the doorway the bullets rip
Repeating the sound of the beat......."
BADA$$ song !!! Reminds me of when I was on the " market" many moons ago.
I was ruthless...........