For me I'd never been with anyone except for one kiss. There was a girl that started hanging around where I work. I'm pretty sure she had heard from friends I was a virgin at 20. Anyways, she's flirting with me and invites herself back over to my house after a party one night. On the way there I get a massive erection to the point it's actually painful after a bit. We get to my house and find our way to my bed. Even with a full blown erection and her laying next to me in her underwear I was too scared to do anything. Sad I know. She eventually gave up making comments like "I think people should just go for things they want" etc and I started saying I was really tired and turned over and went to sleep. Next night she's over again hanging around and this time she's being touchy feely and basically telling me what to do as far as kissing her etc. So, I end up going down on her but when she's done I realize I still haven't had an erection. I'm seriously worried at this point. Well, she tells me to lay back and let her take care of it. I couldn't even watch. I was on the verge of tears because the night before my body was ready even though my brain wasn't and the next night it's the exact opposite. Finally after several minutes my body reluctantly responds and 2 minutes later I'm no longer a virgin. She was gone before I woke up the next morning. She wasn't so interested in me after that. Must have figured I was a horrible lay or she had gotten my V-Card and was satisfied with that. She stopped answering calls etc soon after. I was heartbroken.
I started dating my wife about a month later. Married her and the rest is history. So my entire history with women is a kiss, a ONS and 13 yrs of weekly duty sex.
The guy I lost my V to turned out to be gay. Now, don't you feel better?
(It was actually a great relief after 3 months of trying to date him and trying to figure out why he never wanted to fool around and thinking there was something wrong with me...when he came out to me I wanted to throw him a party )
Mine was a quicky at 17. After school, waiting for dance team practice to start... Yes, I lettered in dance in high school...
anyway, the off and on girlfriend of mine at the time, me, and my best friend were walking down the hall by the stage at school, and he noticed the door to the stage service area slightly open. (He knew I was still a virgin)
He puts his arm around us and pushes us into the service room and closes the door. We kiss a bit, then come out... He makes disparaging comments about wasted opportunity, so we went back in..
She was very experienced, I was very Naïve, so I really an surprised in retrospect she had any interest in me, but once we were done, she lost interest in me, and I moved on too....
The guy I lost my V to turned out to be gay. Now, don't you feel better?
(It was actually a great relief after 3 months of trying to date him and trying to figure out why he never wanted to fool around and thinking there was something wrong with me...when he came out to me I wanted to throw him a party )
I agree, my story is pretty sad. I forgot to mention that both my junior and senior prom dates turned out to have boyfriends that they neglected to mention until we were at the after party.
I lost my V to a guy I was friends with at the time. We were young, although he was more experienced than me. We were great friends and I trusted him. He was well endowed so it did hurt a little.
Anyway, after HS I never really saw him again since he moved out of the country for many years. When he came back to live here again, he was severely depressed and committed suicide a few years ago. I'll never forget him.
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~ A woman was sipping on a glass of wine, while sitting on the patio with her husband. She says, "I love you so much, I don't know how I could ever live without you". Her husband asks, "Is that you or the wine talking?"...She replies, "It's me ... talking to the wine.
a guy I'd known since I was little
did it in my mum and dad's bed when they were out heh heh. It was fine, we did it a few more times but the 'relationship' fizzled out
as for what happened in the following years....well
17, in the back seat of my dad's car, me trying desperately to act like I knew what the hell I was doing. After the deed, I discovered that the car was stuck in the mud.
Umm..... some type of country song at first... then it was switched to a rap station and blasted to full volume because HE didn't want to hear friend yapping at the door.
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