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Old 06-08-2012, 04:53 AM   #16 (permalink)
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On marital problems;
"Fix this or you will die cold, drunk and alone."

On work/profession;
"This company was here before you were. It will be here after you're gone. You are not that important."

On life;
"Find something that you enjoy doing that will earn a living. Then be the best you can at it."
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Old 06-08-2012, 07:51 AM   #17 (permalink)
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From an old friend: When faced with a situation, ask yourself two questions....

1) Is this something I have the power to change?
2) If not, will it matter five years from now?

If not, it might not be that important now!
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Old 06-08-2012, 08:01 AM   #18 (permalink)
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From Joseph Campbell:

Follow your bliss. You then put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while, waiting for you, and the life that you ought to be living is the one you are living. When you can see that, you begin to meet people who are in your field of bliss, and they open doors to you. I say, follow your bliss and don't be afraid, and doors will open where you didn't know they were going to be.
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Old 06-08-2012, 08:06 AM   #19 (permalink)
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My Mom always told me "follow your heart".
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Old 06-08-2012, 09:20 AM   #20 (permalink)
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My dad's uncle, Pops, an old native american man who worked in the general store in our town, and always had time for me, said one thing to me when I told him that I was getting married: "Son, after a while, it'll seem like everything she does gets under your skin. When you two disagree, ask yourself one thing: do you want to be right, or do you want sex?"
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From an early boyfriend..."you cannot control what other people think."

It was a revelation to me at the time, and I've never forgotten it.
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From my dad. " If you want it, work for it. The world doesn't owe you a damn thing boy".
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Old 06-08-2012, 09:28 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Good thread, and my boss once told me "don't be late again or you're fired" which I thought was great advice.....lol.
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Old 06-08-2012, 09:31 AM   #24 (permalink)
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Good thread, and my boss once told me "don't be late again or you're fired" which I thought was great advice.....lol.
Excellent advice. When I became a boss my old one gave some advice I kept in my head. " People fire themselves, we just make it official".
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Old 06-08-2012, 09:33 AM   #25 (permalink)
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Best advice I got before I married my wife: Pick your battles.

The idea being you don't always have to try and win every disagreement... just roll with things and only argue if something is of great importance to you.
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Excellent advice. When I became a boss my old one gave some advice I kept in my head. " People fire themselves, we just make it official".


That's awesome!
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One of my dad's favorites: As I started getting old enough to have a few residual aches and pains reminding me of my recklessness in younger times, I'd sometimes complain about it when he was withing earshot. He's always listen, then respond with, "Well, just think. It doesn't get any better."

Thanks for the encouragement, dad
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From my dad. " If you want it, work for it. The world doesn't owe you a damn thing boy".

I don't THINK I have any relatives in Missouri, but WOW! it sounds like we're brothers right there.
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