Ever had a relationship between you & a much older person?
When I was 28 I fell heavily for a woman who was 30 years older than I was.
I thought she was one of the most beautiful women I had ever met. It was a very brief relationship but doomed because she decided that the separation between her and her husband was over and she went back to him.
When I was about 48, I accidentally met her again. So she was now 68, then.
Although I was by then married, all the old feelings I had for her came back. I got palpitations, felt giddy. She was still gorgeous.
It was just a meeting in the street -she was in town to see her brother- but the thing that stunned me was how instantly those feelings suddenly came back. We just chatted for a few minutes and went our separate ways.
But I can see how someone might fall in the trap of meeting an old college sweetheart after 30 years and getting themselves into all sorts of trouble.
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When I was 15, met this english guy.. who "said" he was 18. We dated, went out and did things, ect ... funny thing was... when he had taken me to a restaurant one night.. the cops showed up and pulled him aside.. one sat down and asked me about my relationship with the guy. I told him.. and he then informed me that this man was 35 and they had been tracking him all over the us because apparently everywhere he went there were teenage girls going missing.
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Originally Posted by Gaia
When I was 15, met this english guy.. who "said" he was 18. We dated, went out and did things, ect ... funny thing was... when he had taken me to a restaurant one night.. the cops showed up and pulled him aside.. one sat down and asked me about my relationship with the guy. I told him.. and he then informed me that this man was 35 and they had been tracking him all over the us because apparently everywhere he went there were teenage girls going missing.
Jeez. That story made me feel cold! So glad you escaped him.
Was he charged with anything? Was he really English or was that an act, too?
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Relationships? No, not yet at least. Although, I do enjoy sex with single older women ten to twenty years older far more that I do those around my own age. Older women do it better, know how to cook, and if you're good boy they'll give you something sweet like a brownie or a fiber one bar before you go.
When I was 15, met this english guy.. who "said" he was 18. We dated, went out and did things, ect ... funny thing was... when he had taken me to a restaurant one night.. the cops showed up and pulled him aside.. one sat down and asked me about my relationship with the guy. I told him.. and he then informed me that this man was 35 and they had been tracking him all over the us because apparently everywhere he went there were teenage girls going missing.
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Wow Gaia, that's frightening.You must have been shaking when you heard.Guys like that and Paul Bernardo,who look a lot younger than they are,always make me nervous for my granddaughters,because they look so innocent.I hope there's a special place in hell for all of their kind!
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Originally Posted by Gaia
When I was 15, met this english guy.. who "said" he was 18. We dated, went out and did things, ect ... funny thing was... when he had taken me to a restaurant one night.. the cops showed up and pulled him aside.. one sat down and asked me about my relationship with the guy. I told him.. and he then informed me that this man was 35 and they had been tracking him all over the us because apparently everywhere he went there were teenage girls going missing.
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Yes he was from england.. in fact after that night he had took off straight back to england lol. Apparently he is/was a trucker over there? The cops couldn't find any evidence of him doing anything wrong so he got off of course.. and yeah i was shocked.. think too shocked to do anything but sit there dumbfounded.. lol
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"Feelings get you in relationships quickly, and feelings get you out of relationships quickly. Feelings do not fill in the for the sacrifice and dedication needed to make a relationship work. Feelings get themselves hurt." ~Nsweet~ Ignorance is an equal opportunity employer.~DedicatedDad~
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Well not anymore they won't!
You're right, I'm on a cleanse and have to avoid all food for a while. Until September all services will be on hold, but afterwards I'll be available for photo shoots geared towards making cheating ex husbands jealous and platonic dates for unpopular schoolgirls
I was 18 and my SIL introduced me to her co-worker. We dated for a few weeks and he was invited to my birthday party my friends threw for me at a bar (legal drinking age in Saskatchewan is 19). Well he was shocked it was my 19th birthday (thought I was 25) and I was stunned he was 31! We dated for about 6 months, but it never went any farther. Too bad - he had a really nice Camaro! Still don't know what my SIL was thinking. Posted via Mobile Device
Wow Gaia, that's frightening.You must have been shaking when you heard.Guys like that and Paul Bernardo,who look a lot younger than they are,always make me nervous for my granddaughters,because they look so innocent.I hope there's a special place in hell for all of their kind!
My ex worked with Paul Bernardo. Co-workers joked how much police composite drawing looked like him. One girl had Paul escort her to her car late at night because she was scared of the 'rapist'. He never did anything but talk about irony. Posted via Mobile Device
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