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Old 07-14-2012, 12:02 PM   #151 (permalink)
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...Chippendales came here some years ago and literally flopped. ..
Viagara would have helped them

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Old 07-14-2012, 12:09 PM   #152 (permalink)
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Maybe it's just the way it's being marketed that has the OP's feathers rustling? I dunno.
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Old 07-14-2012, 12:12 PM   #153 (permalink)
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Maybe it's just the way it's being marketed that has the OP's feathers rustling? I dunno.
I think you may be right. I think it isn't as much about WHAT it is...as it is what the OP has seen IMPLIED. If I paid any attention to the words flashing across my screens on some of the trailers, I'd probably be offended... if I wasn't confident in my relationship.
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Old 07-14-2012, 12:16 PM   #154 (permalink)
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I honestly think that is what has happened. I have seen other movies that would have been closer to a porn/showed more nudity/made other uncomfortable than Magic Mike. The trailer is honestly worse then the movie.
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Old 07-14-2012, 12:51 PM   #155 (permalink)
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I just got around to watching Hall Pass with my wife last night. Pretty funny. Very predictable outcome. Very much a chick flick IMO. Maybe a couples flick. The guys get turned down for sex often but have roaming eyes. One of the husbands keeps trying to get quality time with the wife including date nights. She is resentful yadda yadda yadda. Probably that boredom thing.

After the wives offered the Hall Pass, I asked my wife what she thought I would do if offered one the first day. She did not guess it. I told her "I would go see a lawyer". I honestly had no knowledge where the movie was going to go but I figured that the real trouble would be when the wives went up to Cape Cod together and that they would end up hooking up themselves. Which is essentially what happened. One of the wives realizing that her reason for giving the Hall Pass was really for herself to take a break from the marriage and enjoy the attention from other men. Yes stereotypical and we all know this never happens in real life ...

Yeah I know it is just a movie. But after it all played out, I told my wife that this was one of the reasons I would have gone to a lawyer. That suggesting the Hall Pass indicates a severe disconnect on the marriage AND that all too often it means that the wife is either in an affair or looking for one.

Ok so what does this have to do with Magice Mike? Well there may be some connections but they did have some male frontal nudity with a humorous twist of one guy with a rather large penis and the other with a tiny one.

They also showed the guys out to pick up chicks. They went to Applebees and someone suggested the place to go was really Chilis. yes pretty funny. But eventually they went to a dance club which worked for one of the guys. The other husband got interested in a chick from Stabucks but basically hooked up with her via the dance club and then after party. Whatever.

One wife hooked up with a young college athlete who played her pretty well but she was riding the slippery slope anyway. The other woman was played by the coach who was pretty much a predator and knew where the buttons were with a woman who had been married sometime. of course she was very willing to provide him ammunition by explainging the Hall Pass to him. As they cuddled on the couch drinking wine. Perfectly innocent of course in a beach house in Cape Cod with a stranger you just met ... the guy moves in for the kill and she reralize the Hall pass was really for her. Sure cliche. In both cases the women were actually targets for the men pretty much because they were married and the men were able to play them and knew there was no real concern of attachment. One got the feeling this was something the baseball team enjoyed as part of the perks of their travels.

I know this is not a knew movie and yes this is kinda a highjack. But I am just putting it in the light of chick flix and comparing it to Magic Mike which I really have no right to do ... because I have not seen it yet ... LOL.

So was there actual full frontal male nudity in Magic Mike? If not Hall Pass would have had this trumped. But that said I agree it is more about being erotic for some and the titilating idea of the whole CFNM thing. The treating of men as boy toys. All sorts of psych stuff here no doubt varying from woman to woman.

This all said for some women this is as close as they have been to a male strip club so no big deal IMO. I will have to see how accurate a picture the movie paints of the various aspects of this. But it is a chcik flick. Which means it has aspects of real life and fantasy. Just like guy flicks ... except ... different. Tempest in a teapot?
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Old 07-14-2012, 01:07 PM   #156 (permalink)
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Anything with Vin Diesel in it is pure testosterone.
My wife loves him. That is one of her " eye candies ."
IMO, Pitch Black , Rid**** and Fast Five were his best.

I have been reading on TAM comments about this " Magic Mike " movie. I really don't see what is the fuss. Maybe it's because of culture. But I don't think the movie is even showing down here. The biggest movies release here on the same date they are released up there. But my guess is that the cinema ownere know our culture,and they probably know this movie will not really be a hit here.
Chippendales came here some years ago and literally flopped.
Ours is a society where there are Carnivals in different islands almost right through the year and semi nude men & women party and gyrate in the streets for days.....
We don't have much strip clubs either,it simply would not work. What we have is lots of male & female escort and exotic massage parlours etc. That is big business.
It is quite normal to see both male and females dancing suggestively,gyrating in public at fetes, and beach parties.So nobody will pay to see that in a strip joint.
What people pay for here is sex,both males & females.
I totally agree with you. It is a culture thing and I think you hit the nail on the head with the differences. Good insight.
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Old 08-27-2012, 03:29 PM   #157 (permalink)
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Ok, just got back from Seeing "MAGIC MIKE"...(we wait till it hits the $1 Theater months later). Took my husband too, he was a little embarrased, but hey, we seen about 5 dudes in there, 3 with a woman, gay couple in the back...and when walking out, this old lady who seemed to need a cane was right in front of us...I said to my husband... "Didn't know your Mom would be here!" -- I guess them old ladies still like to see a HOT man dancing, got the biggest charge out of that - that will be ME in 30 yrs !

Anyway... LOVED the movie... Mike can DAANNNCCCEEEE. The KID was HOT... the movie showed the reality of struggling behind the scenes...the ugly part of this Lifestyle, the dreams of those who partake ....

Best part for me was the love story (of course)... I know some of this is based on FACT, but I have no idea how much haven't read about it...

How MIKE slowly fell smitten for Adam's sister, their dislike for each other at 1st...but yet an understanding grew...their hanging out on the beach/laughing, His Promise to her he will watch over her brother....unexpected feelings starting to rise in MIKE...and of course how could she not be mesmorized seeing him dance -even though it was NOT her lifestyle at all - and she wanted NO part of it -- and let him know at every turn.

How after her brother really messed up/ drugs....SHe laid into him with fury ...Mike KEPT his promise, even though it was costing him his life savings for his DREAM for his furniture business... very touching there.

He paid another's debt -because he made a promise (beautiful)...... ..Loved the "power of a woman" message in this movie....after realizing, through her words -that STUNG him...he questioned the course of his life...being a 30 yr old stripper..... the driving to her door after quitting for good -not knowing where or what he would do...but he was done... tears in his eyes in the car... how they came together... with "Feels like the 1st time " playing in the background".

Yep, that's it. Even though this is just a movie, I think Life works this way... People we come across in life have an effect on us, and Love...well, we all climb mountains and sail stormy seas for that.. (like the song goes! by Foreigner)... all for the love of 1 Special woman....he was determined to change the course of his life.

But again, I have no idea how much of that was just romantic HYPE or REAL ?? Anyone know?? Was it really true someone bailed him out of his mess for $10,000 and he fell in love with the guys sister...and now he is in the furniture business that he wanted , possibly overlooking the ocean ( I think that was mentioned in the movie).
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Uh.... you forgot the... *spoiler alert!*
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Everyone likely seen it by now anyway....it's old news....Last time I looked at this thread was months ago - so yeah I forgot any spoiler alert warnings ...

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That's ok, I haven't seen it, but chose to go see Hope Springs last week with the Mrs, as she had already seen magic Mike, and I don't need any larger a dose of Channing Tatum envy....
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Lmao I have yet to see it... but that's ok.
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Meh.... Channing Tatum barely clothed... It's not like he can act...
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Hey, I'm doing good.... I only cover her eyes once in a while if he is in a movie now....
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More female nudity in this film than male. No there wasn't any male frontal nudity unless you count the shadow behind the sheet. LOL I went to see this film with a bunch of girls from the gym and the funniest (and worst) part of the film is when they showed the woman's boobs. The whole theater when "Uuuuughhh!" at the same time. Buzz kill!
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