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Originally Posted by visitor2  Also consider that when your husband tells you that, it might be under duress -- he might be afraid you'd be angry if he snuck a peak once in a while. In many ways, it's an unfair question. It's a load question, like asking how many previous partners you had. It's likely they know the "right" answer. So I don't believe they are able to freely answer under pressure, knowing full well your views on the matter. |
Not to start an argument, but consider when he told me what? That he doesn't look at it on his phone or the computer? That he doesn't watch it on the TV? That he got disgusted when his so-called friend sent him a half naked pic? As to the computer/phone/TV...he doesn't. He doesn't delete history on his browser on either of them. He goes to bed before me and up after me. This is due to medications his doctor has put him on. So, I know what is on the TV all day. And magazines? He never goes shopping. I do all the shopping. Kids are usually left home with him. And, no mail subscriptions to it lol. So, tell me again? When is he looking? In his sleep? Meh, that doesn't bother me. Fantasies/dreams are not able to be controlled. I wouldn't even try. Any more than he would try to stop me from fantasizing about anyone else, if I was so inclined.
Now, if you mean about the friend sending him the pic... the same friend sent the pic to me. To show me what he sent to him. The GUY told me, not my husband, about his reaction. And the guy told me that my husband was PISSED. It was tasteful (the pic). I've seen worse in magazines lol. AFTER being told by this guy, my husband told me about the exchange. And it matched what this guy said EXACTLY. So, no, he wasn't operating under duress.
Now, before you think I am some self-righteous woman... we DO watch some things on the "fringe" so to speak. But we watch them together. Movies/TV shows that have a real plot. Also, I'm not naive enough to believe he finds NO other woman attractive. Just as he knows I find other men attractive.
My husband isn't saying things under duress. If anything
I am more open to things than
HE is. Perhaps that is because I am the only woman he has been with. (Incidentally, he knows my number... my REAL number, which is 2 before him, and he knows the circumstances behind the breakups). The thing is, I was never wild either. He was the one who brought up the subject of porn in our discussions. He had viewed his dad's and was disgusted with it. And, never touched any since.
Like I said, we know what works for us. That's all that matters.
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