[Matt1720]

he's a special kind of stupid, one that only recognizes he did something wrong when he's sitting in county.

telling him isn't working, time for something he understands.

[jpr]

Originally Posted by Orpheus

you are such an adorable mess.

Yes, I am indeed a mess. ...but, not adorable. Just a mess.

The FF showed up this morning at my door after his shift. I think I mentioned something about perhaps seeing him in the morning before he picked up his son. I guess he took that as an invitation. He woke me up....and yes, I was wearing my old, raggedy football jersey.

He was in his little uniform and so irresistible.
We talked for most of the morning. I knew that he was married twice. He was married for 6 months when he was 21 years ago. Then, he was married more recently for 5-6 years. His son is from this last marriage. ...but,today I learned that he was married THREE times. THREE. Yikes.

So, yes. I must confess, I am a mess.

[Matt1720]

was the third even before the first (if that makes sense)?

[Dollystanford]

oh good lord jpr, is he hoping to make you lucky number four?

my ex has a new girlfriend who is 50 and has hair like straw!

[jpr]

hmmmm...here is the timeline:

1st marriage: 21 years old--married for 6 months. Lived together for 2 years prior to marriage. Wife left him because she didn't want to be married any more. (her next 2 marriages were similar--all 6 months in length. )

2nd marriage: 24-26 years old- married for about 2 years. Wife left him. She didn't want to be married anymore. They had no kids together. She didn't have a job. She refused to work. He worked 3 jobs to make ends meet, but she complained that he was never home and they never did fun things together.

3rd marriage: 33-38 years old-married about 5 years. One child together. (he is 4 years old). Wife left him when their son was about 1 year old. They went through a 2 year divorce/separation process. 2 weeks after the divorce was finalized, she got married to someone else.


The FF is a nice guy....but, he is just not very smart. Not very smart at all when it comes to females. I have a feeling that all three of these women were super hotties. He actually paid for the last one to get two boob jobs. ....because she was unhappy, and she thought that having bigger breasts would make her happy. I have a feeling that he lets the c@ckeral do the picking in the hen house....if you know what I mean.

I feel like I want to give him some advice on how to pick woman.

[jpr]

Originally Posted by Dollystanford

oh good lord jpr, is he hoping to make you lucky number four?

my ex has a new girlfriend who is 50 and has hair like straw!

Nooooooooo. No.

We are definitely NOT a couple.

We are just friends.

[bandit.45]

Originally Posted by jpr

hmmmm...here is the timeline:

1st marriage: 21 years old--married for 6 months. Lived together for 2 years prior to marriage. Wife left him because she didn't want to be married any more. (her next 2 marriages were similar--all 6 months in length. )

2nd marriage: 24-26 years old- married for about 2 years. Wife left him. She didn't want to be married anymore. They had no kids together. She didn't have a job. She refused to work. He worked 3 jobs to make ends meet, but she complained that he was never home and they never did fun things together.

3rd marriage: 33-38 years old-married about 5 years. One child together. (he is 4 years old). Wife left him when their son was about 1 year old. They went through a 2 year divorce/separation process. 2 weeks after the divorce was finalized, she got married to someone else.


The FF is a nice guy....but, he is just not very smart. Not very smart at all when it comes to females. I have a feeling that all three of these women were super hotties. He actually paid for the last one to get two boob jobs. ....because she was unhappy, and she thought that having bigger breasts would make her happy. I have a feeling that he lets the c@ckeral do the picking in the hen house....if you know what I mean.

I feel like I want to give him some advice on how to pick woman.

Sounds like FF and I have the same stupidity gene running through us.
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[unsure78]

ok here is what im going to do (after doing a lot of thinking while taking my aggression out on the yard work) when exasshat drops of DS, i am clearly going to tell him that no sexual touching is allowed and inappropriate. That if he does it again all of his cr@p left this house will end up on the street, the car will be repoed, and i will file a complaint with the police. I am going to tell the engineer, but request that he does nothing, i am informing him out of respect because if the tables were turned and he was hit on i would like to know.
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[bandit.45]

Originally Posted by Dollystanford

oh good lord jpr, is he hoping to make you lucky number four?

my ex has a new girlfriend who is 50 and has hair like straw!

Your ex gets sexually arouse by scarecrows huh?
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[jpr]

Originally Posted by bandit.45

Sounds like FF and I have the same stupidity gene running through us.
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I am realizing that this world is full of a lot of goodhearted men who just don't know how to pick women.

It is sad...because they end up getting walked all over.

[angelpixie]

Bandit -- one marriage and one rebound do not constitute a stupidity gene, sweetie. Stop being hard on yourself.

[angelpixie]

jpr -- does he need an education, or these red flags? Just sayin'

[cantmove]

Do you guys ever really NEED a hug from someone of the opposite sex? I don't mean sex and I don't mean just a hug. I need one of those on the bed or couch facing each other legs intertwined, arms wrapped around each other. My head against his chest listening to his heart beat. I ache for this from someone other than stbx. I feel very lonely today. Sorry to be a Debbie downer.

[jpr]

Originally Posted by angelpixie

jpr -- does he need an education, or these red flags? Just sayin'

not sure.......

Perhaps a little of both.

[angelpixie]

Wow, I know what you mean, CM. There are so many times that would mean way more to me than good sex. Seriously.