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Old 08-11-2012, 10:00 PM   #1 (permalink)
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If your hubby/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/next door neighbors dog, asks you want you want for any gift giving holiday, do you already have things in mind you want? Do you have to think about it? What do you do?
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What the heck?
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Ok hellioness.. it seems like your asking abou the neighboors dog magically speaking and asking what you want for a holiday gift....
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Ok hellioness.. it seems like your asking abou the neighboors dog magically speaking and asking what you want for a holiday gift....
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He IS! You don't UNDERSTAND GAIA!!! He's talking to me....constantly....he just won't...shut...up.

I thought that maybe if I gave him some sort of answer he'd leave me alone...please help me! What DO I DO?!!?!?!?!?
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Well... what would you like for a gift?
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Just tell him lol
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but...but...but... I don't WANT anything.

Actually the hubby is asking what I want for our anniversary and honestly I don't want anything.
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Maybe to leave his "gifts" on another neighbor's lawn.
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Ok hellioness.. it seems like your asking abou the neighboors dog magically speaking and asking what you want for a holiday gift....
Dogs don't speak? I'll have to tell mine to stop it....
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but...but...but... I don't WANT anything.

Actually the hubby is asking what I want for our anniversary and honestly I don't want anything.
Not even some whips and chains?
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Tell him that you want a gift certificate so you can get something that you really need/want.

Or tell him that you just want him to spend the day with you and him plan a picknick for the two of you.
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Not even some whips and chains?
Or whip cream and chocolate syrup...
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No, we have plenty of those and with us living in different states there's no use right now anyway.

So I was just wondering if I'm the odd one out for not knowing what I want/not wanting anything.
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No, we have plenty of those and with us living in different states there's no use right now anyway.

So I was just wondering if I'm the odd one out for not knowing what I want/not wanting anything.
I seldom can answer that kind of question. I just don't want things usually.
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I seldom can answer that kind of question. I just don't want things usually.
YAY I'm not alone!!!
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