Proposing a LD subsection in the SIM forum
i want to propose adding a subsection for LDs in the SIM forum. The recent thread "LDs speak up...." was very enlightening and informative. There are many LD people to lurk on TAM but don't post because they fear backlash and flaming from frustrated HDs. Just as I learned a lot from the HD point of view and how important sex in a long term relationship is to them, they need to learn that LDs do love but we express it differently. We enjoy intimacy and sex, we just don't need it as often as HDs.
I've read posts where LD is synonymous with asexuality, not true.
I've read posts where LDs don't need touch at all, we enjoy touch, just non-sexual touch with no pressure for sex.
These things can be cleared up with this LD subsection. LDs will be free to speak openly about what they like and don't like about sex and feel validated and accepted just as the HDs are. This can be a learning tool for the HDs to use with their LDs spouses.
A warm body with an erection doesn't make a person loving. - Anon Pink
The grass may or may not be greener on the other side, no guarantees, however, the grass is always greener where you water it. - Lila