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Old 10-26-2008, 04:33 PM   #121 (permalink)
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Old 10-26-2008, 05:01 PM   #123 (permalink)
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thanks ****** , your words were very kind and understanding. honestly a fresh outlook from someone else was nice.
my mothers cousin got stabbed to death a few years ago . that coulda been me but it wasnt.
as for god - sorry total atheist here.
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Old 10-26-2008, 05:07 PM   #124 (permalink)
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You are welcome Justean, and i am sorry to hear that.

Why do you say it could have been you?
Unless you were with him when it happened..there is no reasons for you to think that.
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Old 10-26-2008, 05:10 PM   #125 (permalink)
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thanks ****** , your words were very kind and understanding. honestly a fresh outlook from someone else was nice.
my mothers cousin got stabbed to death a few years ago . that coulda been me but it wasnt.
as for god - sorry total atheist here.
You are

Oh, well, God says I have to love ya anyway. Love Thy Neighbor. That means people on forums too.
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Old 10-26-2008, 05:21 PM   #126 (permalink)
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LOL! that one i didnt read in the bible " love people you meet on forums too".. but its true, love your next is love all you meet..

Christ is one of the very few religious leader and prophete, that never said to dont love those from a different faith or who have no religious faith at all.
In fact, christianity is the alone religion to say that. And i am very very proud of that.
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Old 10-26-2008, 05:24 PM   #127 (permalink)
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Me too !
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Old 10-26-2008, 05:41 PM   #128 (permalink)
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Old 10-27-2008, 03:41 AM   #129 (permalink)
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thanks honey just for having to love me on the forum.
your so kind.
im not sad because i dont believe in god and i do respect others opinions and ideas.
ive seen children dying in agony and disease and the rest of it in the medical field. i see no god that does this to the innocent. i thought god wanted peace and love, where is it then?
politics and religion have a lot to answer to.
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God gives life and takes life, hun. He can't have everone live forever on Earth, there is a time and place for everything. It is sad to see people die, hun. More so, people you love, but it is the circle of life, doll. Think of it as going to a better place when you lie, hun, and death doesn't seem so bad, when you live forever in Heaven, right? My own mother ( I wasn't born yet) had died and had an out of body thing happen to her. She knows there is another place other then this place, hun. They jump started her heart three times, but what she saw when out of her body was something to see. She said she saw them working on her, and a voice tell her go back it isn't your time yet. She floated back into her body, opened her eyes and was back. You will see your love ones again, and guess what, they will not have anything wrong with them either. There was another time that we thought my mother was going to die, they told us 6 months to a year to live. I prayed and ask God for a sign, hun, and he gave me one. Shocked the hell out of me, but he did. You have to really open your heart to him and believe.

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thanks honey just for having to love me on the forum.
your so kind.
im not sad because i dont believe in god and i do respect others opinions and ideas.
ive seen children dying in agony and disease and the rest of it in the medical field. i see no god that does this to the innocent. i thought god wanted peace and love, where is it then?
politics and religion have a lot to answer to.
God didn't promise that we will live our life in peace and love all the time, hun. If this is the case..then no room for believing and having Faith. I have lost kids, hun.. we miscarried some, but I will not hate God for it. He had his reasons, hun.

Politics doesn't get you to Heaven, nor does what religion you are. It is how you live your life.
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Old 10-27-2008, 09:39 AM   #132 (permalink)
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Why do you say it could have been you?

i think when i got over the hitting and punching ,once we were apart - you dont realise how actually violent it was until your out of it.

one punch lead to another and so on, so it could have been me , i was just a lucky person who escaped a violent ex H.
my mum cousin wasnt so lucky.
no i wasnt there when she was murdered.

as for honey - i respect your answer.
i dont ask that we live forever.
ive read my bible stories and i see no justification for gods actions.
they entice hatred and war and sacrifice and suffering.

i see life as a destiny. ive done my search on trying to find out what was best for me.
i felt very strongly about a god complex, but mention seeing a ghost and ppl say dont be so stupid. yet ive seen ghosts and yet ppl say dont be stupid. yet who has seen god?
ppl are entitled to whatever they believe in and thats fine, it would be boring if we all had the same viewpoint.

i found i was just best at being me, and not being me through someone else.
thats why i dont have a religion, my children are not christened, but they have the choice when they are older.
i dont stop there beliefs and they go to sunday school and church orientated groups.
the day my time comes, well is the day its supposed to happen.
because its my time to go.
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ive read my bible stories and i see no justification for gods actions.
they entice hatred and war and sacrifice and suffering.

Darlin, God is really Jesus (if you can understand the Bible), and he suffered more pain than anyone could ever know. There is still war on Jesus and God today, hun. People wanting God out of other people's life. No wanting prayer to be said in schools. Hey, we didn't have shooting in schools when I was growing up, how about you? Maybe we shouldn't take prayer and the words "under God" out of out schools, and it isn't Happy Holidays..it's Merry Christmas.
It is stupid to try to take Christ out of Christmas and say Happy Holidays, when Jesus's birth is why we have Christmas in the first place. DUH !

Father, Son, and the Holy Spirt is "One", hun.

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yet ive seen ghosts and yet ppl say dont be stupid. yet who has seen god?

Who do you think made this place and everything in it? Mr. Science? Who do you think made it possible for you to have kids and give you and your kids a body and soul, it sure wasn't the Science alone (not that smart) that did all of this. It is too well planed out not to have a high power.
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I'm sorry, hun, you have every right to believe or not believe in God.
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