If you are referring to a particular discussion thread in the Sex in Marriage forum, I deleted it. Since I am in the process of deleting my posts from this site in order to limit being vilified for my personal experiences here.
I am sorry for the inconvenience.
When people throw crap at you, don't swallow it. It says more about them than it does about you. You're just giving them the opportunity to expose themselves as poop-flingers.