Clipclop, until recently, Regret has not shown any real anger. When did that start? From what I have seen, it was when some started attacking her. When attacked, I don't know many who wouldn't lash out. I know I have, and it was in regard to other subjects, not just infidelity.
You mentioned the whole trust issue, due to Regret being a fWW. Sorry, but I have made quite a few friends here, many BS, and they are aware I am a fWW. Regret and I have been here almost the same amount of time, and she's a hell of a lot nicer than I am. So I don't buy that as the excuse for how she has been treated lately. No, too many ARE bitter, and DO lash out at those who WERE unfaithful to their spouses. And it isn't because of anything the fWS said or did. It has been SOLELY because of that scarlet "A" on their chests.
Yes, clipclop, everyone has to put up with SOME garbage. But no one has the right to constantly sling sh*t at anyone because of how someone else treated him or her. So, no, the way some have treated Regret in recent months/weeks is most certainly NOT fair. I've said it before, but can't remember if it was on the board or in PM to others (including BSs who listen, rather than throw stones at the mere mention of infidelity). The only one whose opinion matters as far as Regret's situation is Dig. The only one who matters for me is my husband, etc. Anyone else is superfluous.