Re: Create folder for LD/HD threads?
My question to you then is, who is going to deem or classify someone's problem or question as rooted in an LD vs. HD situation, and then be the arbiter and move them off into a separate forum where they won't bother anyone with a problem they have heard a thousand times before?
I have seen threads here asking about a wide variety of questions with the POSSIBLE root problem as an LD spouse. Even lack of intimacy outside the bedroom (hugging, kissing) can involve an LD spouse. If you look on the "Sex in Marriage" forum board now, there are questions involving marital affairs, blowjobs, initiating sex, sleepwear choices, initiating sex, no longer finding a spouse attractive, etc. All of which can be traced back to an LD spouse.
I don't think you can diagnose a specific topic as not having roots in LD vs. HD, unless the thread creator knows and wants to discuss his or her problem with those specifics in mind.
Some new people to TAM don't even know what LD or HD means, or is for that matter. They just know they are having a problem in their marriage and can't put a finger on it.
I know I didn't until I came here looking to see if anyone else felt the way I did.
My answer is if you don't want to read another thread involving HD or LD problems, don't click on the thread.