Here are our forum guidelines:
http://talkaboutmarriage.com/general...ead-first.html
Violating any of these rules can get you banned. We usually start out with a short term ban (3-7 days), and let the person we banned know why they were banned. If we have to ban someone a third time, it is usually a permanent ban.
Flagrant offenses (like spammers or new members who immediately start out by calling people names and being disrespectful) usually get banned permanently the first time.
Some of the most common offenses are rule #1: treat others on the forum with dignity and respect.
You might not always agree with everyone here, but you should treat them with respect irregardless of your differences. Name calling is a common offense that will get someone banned immediately.