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post #1 of 2 (permalink) Old 04-15-2016, 07:51 PM Thread Starter
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Question How it the question private message thing works


I noticed that when I went into the message board
I had received a private message
At the board
I didn't have it the notification in my inbox email yet
On the board it came first before the email notice

Why was there a delay to my inbox ?

Its like TAM sent it to their board first before my email got it
Does anyone know what and why that happened


In yahoo messenger
You can be online but set your notice to show others your not online

Does TAM private message system work the same way

Can a person be online
It shows there offline but they are still on?
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post #2 of 2 (permalink) Old 04-18-2016, 09:00 AM
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Re: How it the question private message thing works


There should be an incognito mode that you can set your account to by going to the User CP-> Edit Options-> Login & Privacy ->Use Invisible Mode.

Have you tried adding and to your safe senders list? Emails could be taking longer to reach you because your system does not recognize that TAM is a safe sender. Let us know if that doesn't help and we'll have to dig a little deeper to see if we can root out the problem.

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