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Ignore list and friend requests

Ok, so I'm having two problems with TAM as of late, and I wonder if anyone else is having the same issues?

1. Rejecting friend requests. I received a friend request from some random user who I've never engaged with on the boards. I declined the request... but it still shows up as pending. I tried to decline the request several times, but it doesn't work.

2. Ignore list. I've tried to add a use to my ignore list multiple times, to no avail. I still see this user's posts, and I would prefer not to.

ETA: And I have successfully done both of these things in the past, so it's clearly a new problem.


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I know that I have a damned-near endless list of TAM friends!

But the common denominator there is that they've either engaged me in dialogue, or I them!

And I feel rather good about all of them! After all, they've more than exhibited to me that they are indeed, fantastic people, each in their very own way!

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Ok, so I'm having two problems with TAM as of late, and I wonder if anyone else is having the same issues?

1. Rejecting friend requests. I received a friend request from some random user who I've never engaged with on the boards. I declined the request... but it still shows up as pending. I tried to decline the request several times, but it doesn't work.

2. Ignore list. I've tried to add a use to my ignore list multiple times, to no avail. I still see this user's posts, and I would prefer not to.

ETA: And I have successfully done both of these things in the past, so it's clearly a new problem.


How are you blocking / ignoring? Through a web browser at the main TAM site or through Tapatalk? Try Tap. It should work.
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How are you blocking / ignoring? Through a web browser at the main TAM site or through Tapatalk? Try Tap. It should work.
I tried BOTH. And neither worked.

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And yet you can still see me wordsmith!!

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Why is this entire thread blank?
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And yet you can still see me wordsmith!!

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I didn't try to block you!

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Why is this entire thread blank?
Maybe this is why I only have 2 friends here. It's ok, I can talk to myself.
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Why is this entire thread blank?
I can see the whole thread.

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I can see the whole thread.
I am too deadpan sometimes.

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I tried BOTH. And neither worked.


I just tested blocking and unblocking you in Tap and i worked for me. Sorry. Can't help any further.
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Maybe this is why I only have 2 friends here. It's ok, I can talk to myself.


I'm still awaiting my friend request.
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I just tested blocking and unblocking you in Tap and i worked for me. Sorry. Can't help any further.
I'll give it another try.

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Nope, still didn't work

Guess I'm stuck reading this person's posts when they come up.

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@blueinbr thanks for trying, though.

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