Re: We Discovered My Husband Has a Kid
This is not a good situtation. the irony here is that while your husband is treating the ex as if she were his current wife, he's expecting you to act like a wife. So the ex can date other men but there will be hell to pay if you do. He may start ensuring that you pay for stuff around the house while he saves as much money as possible to spend on the ex and his child and the rest of that family.
Imagine how you are going to feel when the ex starts bringing to these outings and your husband starts paying for this guy as well.