Re: No, You can't make a person change
Really good article. I like it when he states to ask better questions, and not provide better answers. People have to see the need to change themselves. Then even so, they have to want to make the changes from within.
This is also why the saying, "once a cheater, always a cheater" has credibility. Doesn't mean people will continue to cheat, but it's their DNA, so to speak. Cheaters have to recognize their brokenness and force themselves to take actions to keep them from betraying again. An alcoholic who hasn't had a drink in 20 years tell you, "I am an alcoholic". Yes t5hey are. They're just keeping sober to for the sake of themselves first, and loved ones second.