Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: South Sandwich Islands
Yeah....trying to get the code to your account is telling. That shows he has no limits in his quest for cash.
Why didn't he just ask you for it? Or ask if he could have a couple hundred for now?
I again want to relate to when me and the XW were near the end. She had a dozen CCs, I did the
finances and juggled them (with her money). When DDay came, I stopped doing her finances.
One by one they started calling the house. One by one I gave them her cell #.
She tried to pull all the $ out of our account, I'd already closed it. She tried to clean out my
account at another bank but since it required both signatures for withdrawal, she was SoL.
Then I received a hate filled message about me stealing her CC info. All I had was the email and
password. She already was getting NSF charges right and left but exclaimed she wanted to pay
her CC bills LOL..... I found it funny though anytime she thought she might have $7.21 available
credit on a card, she sure as crap knew how to call their 800 number. I didn't respond to her tirade.
It would not have mattered what I would have said, she was devolving and I knew it.
Reason I say this is..... this may very well be happening to you in the near future.
Sitting him down and having a very frank discussion about finance is a must. You or he may think it
is rocking the boat. But if something isn't addressed, the boat will be sinking before you know
it and it usually spirals out of control thereafter....
A-Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
B-We know what we are, but know not what we may be
C-Never make the person in your present pay for the sins committed by people from your past