Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Away and beyond in a hot place
Re: Wife wants out, wonít admit it but wants me to take the blame
@ costas48, there is alot of stuff in here that would drive any marriage over the edge, with the sudden amount of cash, drugs dependency, workaholics, etc. I feel sorry for your kids s you are not bringing them up in a very stable environment.
I would suggest you hire a PI to follow your wife to see what she is up to. There may be a few reasons why she is saying she wants out
1. she has another man
2. She wants more attention and wants to shock you with a threat
3. She is an addict and wants freedom to do whatever she wants without your supervision
4. Her ADD is much worse or even something else such as BPD which would explain her erratic behavior
5. She is a spoilt ****ty person (princess) who has taken from you all this time and expects all her needs to be met without taking responsibility for her own actions. In this case give her what she wants.
Maybe she thinks you will not follow through with divorce
Ensure you follow through on the divorce lawyer and let her see that you will not he held hostage. Do the 180 on her.
The life you have, is the life you create