Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Away and beyond in a hot place
Re: Update To My Other Post
Sorry Martino, but you are living in a fantasy world probably precipitated by the Oxytocin rush of sneaking around on your wife. Any woman who is prepared to up sticks and go live with a man she barely knows and hasn't even committed to her is soft in the head or stupid and dangerous in my opinion. You may well be jumping from the boiling pot into the fire. Incidentally, women who need to steal other women's husbands and cannot get one of their own sound desperate and she does sound desperate.
You are in the usual cheaters affair fog, this will not end well.
If you have problems with your wife, what are they? Why are you not trying to work on these? Does your wife know, have you ever talked to her about your so called problems? Are you part of the problem. You sound like a man without any discipline and follows your **** rather than a man who is sensible. A decent man doesn't decide to dump his wife and family over a bit of skirt that he doesn't know and I haven't even mentioned the damage to the kids.
If as you say, your wife is too lazy or doesn't care about you, why would you hedge your bets and stay with her? If you go off with the OW then why would she care, no loss to her. Just tell her the truth and go, at least do something honest for once. I am sure when she knows what you are planning she probably wont want you anyhow, what woman would after discovering your 5 day fest, she might just make the decision for you, try it and let the chips fall where they may.
If you don't have the cajones to make the decision, tell your wife about the OW, she will most definitely make the decision for you.
On a final note,:Remember far away fields are not always green, many on here can attest to that. But it is your choice.
The life you have, is the life you create