Re: H loves another woman
What do we know? We never met him and only know what you've told us. My first reaction is why do you want to stay with a man who treats you so poorly.
Experience tells me that a spouse who lies, tries to rug sweep, and finally admits to loving another is not committed to your marriage, and does not respect you. Of course this could change, but not overnight.
So he's going to see HIS counselor. How about MC for the two of you? He has issues he needs to resolve, but the relationship is crippled, at best. Over at worst.
In youth it was a way I had, to do my best to please, And change, with every passing lad to suit his theories.
But now I know the things I know, and do the things I do; And if you do not like me so, To hell, my love, with you! --Dorothy Parker