Join Date: Apr 2014
Location: Funhouse of Madness called life
Re: Choosing BS Only When Dumped by AP?
My ex had cheated on me nearly a decade ago, the first time, with her ex bf, emotionally online then it became ( Most likely) physical after they spent time together in person.. Plans were laid, among other things lol, and had certain things gone down differently they would have ended up together. Even after D-day she was still ever cheating with hi,, just better at hiding it, which continued for well over a year. Since I have a very good memory I was able to pinpoint in retrospect the times she was uncannily affectionate to the times when him and her weren't getting along. When he ignored her, she was highly loving, when they fought, she was highly loving...
So using my experience and most peoples testimonies here and elsewhere, most cases of Reconciliation are based on the AP ending the affair.
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