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post #46 of 54 (permalink) Old 05-26-2019, 08:27 AM
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They do not call them "swingers" and "sex" clubs because everyone sits around and has conversations about the weather.

She has gone at least twice now that she admits to. Something definitely happened both times.

She probably invited the guy to attend with her. There is no doubt what she intended to do.
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Dude you married a women who goes to swingers clubs with other men. She has less regard for you then a dog. If she was a car she would be a lemon. It's a total loss. File for divorce and get the hell away from her a soon as possible. What could possibly be good by spending another ounce of energy on such a person.

Really there are some people they are really only good for having affairs with and taking to swingers clubs until you get tired of them.

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It just amazes me how many BHs Come on here and just donít have a clue I mean wow.!
It almost doesn't seem real does it?
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Your wife meets a man at a swingers club and your questions here on this forum are exactly what, Sir? You need to get away from your lying cheating WW as fast as you can. Expose everything, blow up her world and file for D. You can certainly do better than a wife who goes to a swingers club with another man. And I'd say it's highly likely she has had sex with more than just the man she met, probably quite a few others and it's more than possible with more than one man simultaneously. MMF, MMMF, gangbangs, etc. That's a primary purpose of a "swingers" club.
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Sex life was the same but recently increased after I found out.
This is a huge red flag. You busted her and she used sex as currency to assuage your suspicions. Once she's satisfied that you're back to being blissfully ignorant then the sex will dry up again.
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Do you and your wife go to swingers clubs?

If my wife told me she met someone at a swingers club that would be the biggest WTF ever heard.
If my wife stepped foot into a swingers club I'd divorce her as fast as the law will allow.
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we dont but have a friend that does...its more about she said one story and then changed it because she wanted to tell me the truth. why is telling your spouse the truth that hard..
Because what she did is a marriage breaker and she's afraid you'll divorce her. Is she right?

People don't go to swinger's clubs to watch tv and eat popcorn. They go there to have sex. I assume that people go to those clubs to have sex with multiple people and would assume that's what your wife has been doing. She is also having a relationship with the man she has been texting. She already told you he was at the club, so you can assume that she has been having sex with him too.

This is difficult to wrap your head around, but for your own personal safety you need to recognize these facts and act on them. With the kind of activities that your wife has been involved in, she could have STDs now. I recommend you stop having sex with her, wait a week, and get tested for STDs. If you have an STD and you wait a week, the test is more likely to find it. You can go to a walk in clinic for the testing.

Also, see an attorney.


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SHE WENT TO A SWINGERS CLUB????

Sorry to be blunt, but don’t walk, RUN!!!
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post #54 of 54 (permalink) Old 05-31-2019, 04:08 PM
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He doesnt like what he hears. So,he is gone. So sad...
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