My twin teenaged boys came across the sex videos I recorded with my AP. I'm 100% sure AP's ex wife leaked them. My life has been destroyed.
Crazy **** but I'm not going to stay it didn't get a chuckle out of me.Alright, this will be a long one. Please bear with me. I'm crying as I'm writing this.
I met my AP, a mid 40s MM while on a business trip and we became really good friends. We both came from almost DB marriages and quickly fell in love. Our affair was strictly physical when it first started, but then we soon realized the connection we had was something you only find once in a lifetime.
We had really great sex with each other. Now because we only met each other on our business trips, we often recorded our intimate sessions for our own pleasure, as a loving memory to relive when we would be apart from each other.
2 years into our affair, we decided that we wanted to be with each other. AP quickly moved his divorce process and his wife of 13 years seemingly accepted the end of their marriage without putting up much of a fight. This was the first red flag, but we ignored it.
I'm in the process of dissolving my marriage to my husband of 20 years. We both have kids. I have two twin boys who are in high school and my AP has a daughter who is 10.
We planned on getting married after my divorce came through. We had already looked at bigger homes for our blended family.
AP had a very amicable divorce, which actually shocked AP himself because he presented her with divorce papers out nowhere. If I was in her place I would have been shocked and devastated.
I'm currently in the process of an emotionally charged divorce as my husband didn't know why our marriage is ending.
Well last night, while we were getting ready to have our last family dinner together, my two twin boys came rushing into the dining room crying bitterly accusing me of being a *****. Turns out, In their high school boys GC, some little punk posted ALL THE SEX VIDEOS I recorded with my AP. My world has come crashing down. My boys tried to physically fight me last night and were restrained by my husband. I immediately called up AP and told them what went on. He said he has no idea how the videos got leaked.
Today morning I went to my AP ex wife's workplace (she is an attorney) to confront her. She acted fake surprised and was NOT AT ALL devastated that her husband left her for me when I told her everything.
As I was leaving, AP's ex wife shot me with an evil, knowing smile and got back to whatever the hell she was doing.
I'm gutted. My babies DID NOT deserve to see that. We live in a small town and scandals like this get around pretty fast. I just got served with a letter from HR asking me to submit my resignation. My AP is going to resign today.
I'm now looking to put my boys out of this school. My husband hasn't taken my calls or talked to me since last night.
I can't believe this happened to me. I'm shaking as I'm writing this. I've always been a lurker on this sub and always loved reading the stories here. Never thought It would come down to this.
I can't live with the shame. How do I get past this? How can I prove that it was my AP's ex who leaked the video? I have no proof. How do I pursue this legally?