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post #31 of 38 (permalink) Old 12-25-2019, 07:42 AM
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Yes it's the downfall of men.
We think the woman we are with is somehow different.
It's "Idealistic Love" It's a blessing and a curse.
It's a male problem that's started wars and ended civilizations.
Except she wasn't "the woman he was with". She was a woman who screwed him the first day. Nothing wrong with that, but you'd have to be a flaming moron to think the chick who has two kids with two Baby Daddies that gets down the first day is some shrinking violet with few partners.


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Except she wasn't "the woman he was with". She was a woman who screwed him the first day. Nothing wrong with that, but you'd have to be a flaming moron to think the chick who has two kids with two Baby Daddies that gets down the first day is some shrinking violet with few partners.

Sadly, a lot of guys are "flaming morons" when it comes to women. I think that's why so many guys get manipulated by women.
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Sadly, a lot of guys are "flaming morons" when it comes to women. I think that's why so many guys get manipulated by women.
Must be the same extreme suspension of disbelief that allows them to watch certain popular franchise movies without wanting the blood of the writers, directors, and producers.

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Yes it's the downfall of men.

We think the woman we are with is somehow different.

It's "Idealistic Love" It's a blessing and a curse.

It's a male problem that's started wars and ended civilizations.

Very true.... The trick would be how to help men (or women, I have heard the idolize their husbands too BTW) to get to see that while they are in it.... It's hard to convince them that their spouse isn't their special made person
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Very true.... The trick would be how to help men (or women, I have heard the idolize their husbands too BTW) to get to see that while they are in it.... It's hard to convince them that their spouse isn't their special made person
Not in the same way at all.
Idealistic love presents itself to only males. Like penises do..

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Looks like the OP has left the building.

Once you start seeing your worth, you'll find it harder to stay around people who don't.
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Sadly, a lot of guys are "flaming morons" when it comes to women. I think that's why so many guys get manipulated by women.
Oh PLuuuuzzzzz! Where is the accountability? Men just make a choice to think with the wrong head!

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Closing thread due to OP inactivity.

@Jellybean2123 please contact a Moderator f you ever return and would like to have your thread re opened.
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