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FrusteratedJoey View Post If you choose to stay (reconcile) you are a beta male? I'm really confused here, this makes no sense. Surely there are many more factors in play in that choice?
It is certainly not alpha.
Look, typically recognized alpha qualities are strength, confidence and, most importantly, independence. An alpha male achieved his self-worth independently and doesn’t seek his validation in others. An alpha male likes women, but he doesn’t
need a woman. He loves and cares about his children, since they are his genetic and personal legacy, but he wouldn’t think twice about kicking out a cheating wife.
In fact, he would kick her out for much less.
Don’t take it personally. By definition, the majority of males cannot be alpha. In my personal opinion, only 10% of men can be qualified this way. Most self-proclaimed alphas are just imitators, self-hating betas that despise the negative connotations associated with being labeled a beta male.