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post #16 of 18 (permalink) Old 12-23-2012, 07:09 PM
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Re: From frustrated joey---to Suzy Favor Hamilton

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If you choose to stay (reconcile) you are a beta male? I'm really confused here, this makes no sense. Surely there are many more factors in play in that choice?
It is certainly not alpha.

Look, typically recognized alpha qualities are strength, confidence and, most importantly, independence. An alpha male achieved his self-worth independently and doesn’t seek his validation in others. An alpha male likes women, but he doesn’t need a woman. He loves and cares about his children, since they are his genetic and personal legacy, but he wouldn’t think twice about kicking out a cheating wife. In fact, he would kick her out for much less.

Don’t take it personally. By definition, the majority of males cannot be alpha. In my personal opinion, only 10% of men can be qualified this way. Most self-proclaimed alphas are just imitators, self-hating betas that despise the negative connotations associated with being labeled a beta male.

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It is certainly not alpha.

Look, typically recognized alpha qualities are strength, confidence and, most importantly, independence. An alpha male achieved his self-worth independently and doesn’t seek his validation in others. An alpha male likes women, but he doesn’t need a woman. He loves and cares about his children, since they are his genetic and personal legacy, but he wouldn’t think twice about kicking out a cheating wife. In fact, he would kick her out for much less.

Don’t take it personally. By definition, the majority of males cannot be alpha. In my personal opinion, only 10% of men can be qualified this way. Most self-proclaimed alphas are just imitators, self-hating betas that despise the negative connotations associated with being labeled a beta male.
I still remain unconvinced. So, you have to kick out a cheating wife, if you are a true alpha male. Seems a little black and white to me. The world is grayscale, and there are alot of variables at play in family decisions. Perhaps a true alpha male realizes that his actions, affect others. You paint it like an alpha male is nothing more than a driven animal.

Sometimes emotions don't really make sense... do they?
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That is why only a small percent of males can be qualified as true alphas. It doesn’t mean that you must aspire to be one, or that there is anything wrong if you are not one. Not all beta males are pathetic or worthy of ridicule. But here is the thing, if you want respect from women, you better have at least a significant amount of alpha qualities.
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