Re: It has been 5 years since I lost my wife but I'm still not ok
I am very sorry for your loss but make sure you are marrying this other lady for the right reasons. It's not fair to her to always live in your lost wife's shadow.
Finally my friend, you have to accept it. Everything in life ends, everything. This is as much a part of life as life itself. As terrible and sad as it is, this was always the fate of your relationship, and this new one too. That is what life is about. It's happy and sad. There is joy and deep pain. There is life and death. But you still should celebrate your life and try to live it to the fullest.
This new women is with you here and now. Cling to her and lover her while you can, because you know more then most life is short.
You hear all the time that the BS has to eat a **** sandwich, but most of the time the WS -- IS the **** sandwich.
Last edited by sokillme; 10-08-2019 at 01:19 AM.