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post #61 of 82 (permalink) Old 10-18-2015, 11:58 AM
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And I am truly amazed at the amount of men I have see flush their brains down the commode over a hot body. I've seen both sides: guys who give up good relationships, their time, their self worth to go chasing after some hottie who is happy enough to take their money and presents, but otherwise treats them like dirt. And keep chasing thinking she will eventually see how great he is.

And then the flip side, the guy who thinks he's the big winner alpha stud because he managed to bang girls who look like playboy bunnies. He crows about his conquests but never mentions the STDs or the fact that as he ages, he needs to start paying them to stick around. If even that works.

I like to call it the MAGIC PENIS syndrome, this idea that afflict some men that the stupendousness of their member entitles them to endless parades of hot babes, all without end or consequences.
I actually tried to think of the inverse of this thread like you were illustrating in this post but there isn't an equivalent.

Men aren't left pregnant by some boob who already fathered two or more children by different women and aren't taking responsibility.

I absolutely agree that many otherwise good men chase women who certainly aren't worth their efforts.

I'm just at a loss as to why many women get pregnant by the same loser even knowing what he is.
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I actually tried to think of the inverse of this thread like you were illustrating in this post but there isn't an equivalent.

Men aren't left pregnant by some boob who already fathered two or more children by different women and aren't taking responsibility.

I absolutely agree that many otherwise good men chase women who certainly aren't worth their efforts.

I'm just at a loss as to why many women get pregnant by the same loser even knowing what he is.
Of course there isn't an exact equivalent --men don't get pregnant.

But they do get other things: STDs, children that they have to pay for, but never get to see, treated like dirt by women they *still* keep pursuing and thinking they can change her, and on and on it goes.

I also question how common this phenomena you are describing is: I don't know a single woman who found herself in this sort of situation. Like ever.
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I also question how common this phenomena you are describing is: I don't know a single woman who found herself in this sort of situation. Like ever.
I think they're out there, AA, but they are women who place a very low value on themselves and tend to attract men of even less value... I'd even go as far as saying that there's a whole sub-culture of such individuals out there - male and female - and they gravitate towards one another like sh!t to a diaper.
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Of course there isn't an exact equivalent --men don't get pregnant.

But they do get other things: STDs, children that they have to pay for, but never get to see, treated like dirt by women they *still* keep pursuing and thinking they can change her, and on and on it goes.

I also question how common this phenomena you are describing is: I don't know a single woman who found herself in this sort of situation. Like ever.
You would be surprised how few pay child support.....I know of 4 who don't....Of course one died of an OD, one paid indirectly, as her dad and brother played 18 holes of golf on his head....He is still paying for his surgery...One, with 3 kids and an ex, just disappeared...And the one who said you just have to slap some p***y out of them went to the state pen...

And the women....The single mom of the OD victim is doing well, and works as a corrections officer......Wants to be a state trooper....One single mom of 2, married the 3rd love of her life and is very happy.....The single mom of the golfer now lives with him, and gets hit a lot...and the Slappers GF married a terrific guy, has 3 kids and just bought a nice home....

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One of my college roommates was a genuine natural. Of course, he looked like one of the Beach Boys, which I'm sure helped a lot, but he also had a DGAF attitude about almost everything... other than calculus, which he was flunking until I tutored him. Then he wound up with an A.

Any of his (numerous) girlfriends could have been a Playboy model.
The DGAF attitude beats me...Especially toward women....At the age of 18 I had already learned women could be friends, and actually fun to hang out with, And I much preferred hanging around for a nice breakfast, and another round to "hit it and quit it"......

And being passed around like a bottle of wine, did NOT make me feel cheap.....Just because a woman proposes to you, doesn't mean you have to accept, or break up....

When I found THE ONE there was such a dramatic difference I was all too glad to accept....
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I also question how common this phenomena you are describing is: I don't know a single woman who found herself in this sort of situation. Like ever.
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I think they're out there, AA, but they are women who place a very low value on themselves and tend to attract men of even less value... I'd even go as far as saying that there's a whole sub-culture of such individuals out there - male and female - and they gravitate towards one another like sh!t to a diaper.
I thought the same thing AA. I don't know many of these types of women IRL but @Cosmos is right, they do exist. Just watch the Jerry Springer show.
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I actually tried to think of the inverse of this thread like you were illustrating in this post but there isn't an equivalent.

Men aren't left pregnant by some boob who already fathered two or more children by different women and aren't taking responsibility.

I absolutely agree that many otherwise good men chase women who certainly aren't worth their efforts.

I'm just at a loss as to why many women get pregnant by the same loser even knowing what he is.
But men are left fathering children by the 'pretty face & hot body' that they chased. Thus being stuck paying child support and fighting for time with a child that they never wanted. Often a child that leads to them losing their marriage and their other children.

The only difference in this is that the woman carries the baby for 9 months.

And sure, some women get left with babies as the guy runs off. But it's actually a small percentage of the over all population of women that this happens to. So why does this lead to an entire thread where women are being bashed? What is this sort of bashing necessary to some men?

Should be start a thread about the magic penis where men father children with the hot/beautiful women who use men, get pregnant and then hit the guy up for child support? Why not?

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I thought the same thing AA. I don't know many of these types of women IRL but @Cosmos is right, they do exist. Just watch the Jerry Springer show.
Yes they do exist. Just as men who put themselves in the bad positions exist too. the bottom line is that some segment of our society consists of people who were brought up in bad circumstances, have low self esteem. And often, yes they turn out to the guest candidates for the Jerry Springer show. We all know that these men and women exist.

What I'm not sure about is why there is a need for a thread about this that gets turned into "There are "magic vagina" type women... who get knocked up ... and ALL women are so stupid that they chase bad boys."

Why not a thread that makes fun of guys who chase beautiful women who then use them, dump them.. and if the guy is silly enough to marry her... she cheats on him.

To me this thread is just one more attempt to shame women for having a sex life other than in marriage.
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Women are in natural competition with each other and have been since the dawn of time. A guy who has had lots of "girlfriends" is going to naturally be more appealing to more women than a guy who has had none or very few. If Miss Thang hooks up with the Bad Boy who has had 50 previous partners, in the female mind, she has just proven to the world that she trumps those 50 girls. He might be the most abusive, most worthless sack of crap on the planet. Doesn't matter. The more female attention he gets, the better he look to a great many women.
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The thing that gets me is these serial impregnators don't have to pay a dime, while men like me who want to leave because of a bad marriage have to pay the rest of their life. Something just is not right there.


"I've paid double for every transgression I've ever made and that motel and that boat are little to ask for"
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A guy who has had lots of "girlfriends" is going to naturally be more appealing to more women than a guy who has had none or very few.

True. But apart from the very insecure, I would say this is possibly true of men, too.


If Miss Thang hooks up with the Bad Boy who has had 50 previous partners, in the female mind, she has just proven to the world that she trumps those 50 girls.

Not on my planet. I wouldn't touch a guy like that, and I certainly wouldn't feel in any way superior to his previous conquests. More like just one of the herd...


He might be the most abusive, most worthless sack of crap on the planet. Doesn't matter. The more female attention he gets, the better he look to a great many women.

To a great many women who have low self-esteem and values to match.
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I thought the same thing AA. I don't know many of these types of women IRL but @Cosmos is right, they do exist. Just watch the Jerry Springer show.
After re reading my post I wanted to clarify it a bit. I brought up the Jerry Springer show to illustrate that the kinds of people OP describes in this thread are more outliers than the norm he makes it out to be. If in fact, this was a normal occurrence, then Springer wouldn't have an audience.
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Women are in natural competition with each other and have been since the dawn of time. A guy who has had lots of "girlfriends" is going to naturally be more appealing to more women than a guy who has had none or very few. If Miss Thang hooks up with the Bad Boy who has had 50 previous partners, in the female mind, she has just proven to the world that she trumps those 50 girls. He might be the most abusive, most worthless sack of crap on the planet. Doesn't matter. The more female attention he gets, the better he look to a great many women.
Yeah, it's women in competition. That's why men are known for wanting to pound the sh1t out of each other for "poaching" on their territory, or for making eyes at "their" women, or losing it because she had the nerve to smile at another man. And why men are tripping all over themselves for the trophy that they then show off to all their friends, hooking up with women they don't even like because they make them look like super studs. And why men will start showing off and bragging up a storm, trying to prove themselves BMOC or AMOG, just so that a woman will notice him.

Yeah. Sure. It's *women* who are competitive.
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You would be surprised how few pay child support....
No, I am not at all surprised to hear that there are a lot of deadbeats out there. It's not exactly news...

But there are also a lot of guys who get burned because they end up paying for kids that they don't get to see, and have no role in their lives, even though they want to be.
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Yes they do exist. Just as men who put themselves in the bad positions exist too. the bottom line is that some segment of our society consists of people who were brought up in bad circumstances, have low self esteem. And often, yes they turn out to the guest candidates for the Jerry Springer show. We all know that these men and women exist.

What I'm not sure about is why there is a need for a thread about this that gets turned into "There are "magic vagina" type women... who get knocked up ... and ALL women are so stupid that they chase bad boys."

Why not a thread that makes fun of guys who chase beautiful women who then use them, dump them.. and if the guy is silly enough to marry her... she cheats on him.

To me this thread is just one more attempt to shame women for having a sex life other than in marriage.
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I don't think this thread makes fun of anyone. It was written after observing some women I have real feelings for. They all KNEW better, but wound up in relationships with men who were patently useless....

Five minutes conversation with any of them, and you would know to move on....

I think a huge number of men in Coping with infidelity are in the boat you speak of, and their stories need no laughter and finger pointing, they are stand alone humiliation....

I might add, that several of the women who provided the template for this thread wound up married to loving, decent men, and having a good marriage....

A woman who can't help throwing herself at a sorry excuse of a man is sad, and I find NO humor in it...I might add, it has no class or social boundaries....
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