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post #31 of 45 (permalink) Old 03-11-2016, 05:52 PM
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I would divorce her while exposing to her family and yours.

She is a shameless skank.
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Guys im from ireland, all that legal stuff dont really apply here, divorces dont happen that often because people just split and roll on with life
So split and roll.
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Folks will treat you the way you let them treat you.

You tolerate what you tolerate...what I mean is if you have boundaries and consequences for when those boundaries are crossed you can gain a hell of a lot respect.

Your old lady may not like it but she will respect you.
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And this is all taking place in the good ole Republic Of Ireland ????
There's a lot that goes on in the Republic of Ireland. Some of it pretty nasty stuff.

Mind you, Ireland might include Northern Ireland.

But OP, if you are both Catholics, I think a visit to the Priest might help.


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I've never been interested in 'swinging,' but it would seem that someone always ends up having feelings for one or the other person they're 'swinging' with, and then it all goes down a bad path.
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Sorry for rambling but so much has happened and im begining to lose my mind because i cant speak to anyone as she said if her family found out she would tell everyone i put her naked pics on that site without her permission(i didnt and her pics where classy not nude)
Quite the empty threat. If that is all she has...forget it.

The horse is out of the barn now...you need to ask yourself if you really want her back. If you do. TELL EVERYONE. See the standard evidence thread before you do to collect ALL the evidence. Get VERY tough...it's gonna be marriage and family OR other guy. NOT BOTH.
The only way to get her back is to take ZERO BS from he. NONE.

If you don't want her back. DIVORCE HER. Start immediately. Forget this split and roll with it garbage. Do it right. You helped do the marriage WRONG...you can at least get the ending correct.

Be strong. The next time she tries to tell you about OM or dreams..tell her to STFU and pack her stuff and blow.

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Raked by machine gun fire.
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Seems like OP has most of those -but primarily Hope and Fear

I hope you stay here and keep reading OP...knowledge is really what you need. You only have to be alone with this if you choose to.

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Tell her you will listen to her bvllshyt if she can talk around your penis in her mouth.

I am not really joking.
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Thanks for everything guys

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Another, "I got involved with swinging and now my spouse won't stop" thread....

Really?!? A word of advise OP.... NO WOMAN will ever RESPECT a man that's will to share her.

You're trying to unbreak an egg. The best you can do is replace this egg with a new one.

She's broken now and you can't fix it.

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Guys im from ireland, all that legal stuff dont really apply here, divorces dont happen that often because people just split and roll on with life
They should let you do that in the US. If you could, I would have been long gone years ago. When you think about it, that's the way it should be. Why penalize men because they want to move on?

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Just an update, she continued chatting to the guy and only last week he was passing through town and asked if she liked to meet, of course she said yes only this time he in his truck (work) and she thought it woud be a good idea to snuggle up to him.

He tried to tear off her clothes and then used force to place her on him and then threw her off when he was done, he then to her to leave the truck, that night she thanked him and to him how much of an exciting time she had.

She then broke down later told me everything and asked was she raped????

im beyond words
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Wait a minute, she thanked him for a rape?

Wow.... There are people crazier than I initially thought in this world.

Run like hell man. And, don't look back.
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JFC.

When's the divorce?
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