Re: Not Comfortable with My Wife's relationship with another Man
Some more info would be useful. How did she meet this guy ? Does he work with her ? What was the nature of your affair (doesnt sound like she is over that) ?
If she has (as you have said) been meeting up with him as well as texting & calling, for a month then this is more than an emotional affair. What do you think happens when they "meet up"? They dont play cards, I can assure you.
You need to take the excellent advice given by almost everyone on your thread and start going into a deep and covert investigation of what going on (otherwise called snooping) - see the evidence gathering thread recommended here by Weightlifter. You will get your truth soon enough (i.e. if you havent already alerted her and she takes it even further underground). Still a VAR in the CAR should be good enough to catch her with something.
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