Cremation for me, the kids can have a service if they want, won't matter to me. My directions call for my ashes to be poured in the creek that runs along my property line. Growing up in this area I spent all my youth afield, hunting, trapping, fishing, hiking, camping, just enjoying the outdoors, so think it fitting to spread my remains thru the neighborhood. lol
Initially I told my kids to pour my ashes into the sump pump crock in the basement since it pumps out into the creek, my daughter didn't like that approach.