That’s part of the problem and I guess my part in why this has continued for so long. I have no desire for sex at all. NEVER in the mood.
Well, exactly WHEN are you supposed to be having
sex with Peter Pan? At 4 am when his irresponsible, ignorant ass finally turns off his childish little video game console and goes to his big boy bed?
Maybe you can plan it for noon when Mr. Wonderful finally wakes up because apparently, he's exempt
from having to act like a grownup because his mommy wife does 100% of EVERYTHING while he's sleeping til noon every day like a 15 year old teenage kid.
I'm going to be honest. I would have never had a kid with this childish fool because anyone who can't grow the hell up after he marries and takes on adult responsibilities indicates to ME that I'm going to be doing everything alone
because his privileged ass is apparently above
lowering himself to do housework, cooking, laundry, and child-raising. All he really was was a sperm donor and I'd have to seriously question that
gene pool based on how he
You've basically been his mommy for 20 years and you've completely lost all respect for him (how could you NOT?). I'll give you credit - I would have left him YEARS ago because I don't
need to be raising a man-child stuck at the emotional and mental maturity level of a 15 year old boy. At least your normal
kids are growing up and MATURING as you raise them, but Peter Pan? You've got yourself a little boy who'll NEVER grow up. Gosh, I don't know how you manage not
to be ripping this guy's clothes off every minute of the day because apparently, this fool thinks you should be ALL about wanting to have sex with him. <a href="https://talkaboutmarriage.com/images/smilies/rofl.gif" border="0" alt="" title="Rofl" >:-)</a>
He's truly clueless and dumb as a box of rocks.
I want to fix it but I don’t know where to even start.
That's easily remedied. Just call your lawyer and tell him you'll be there first thing in the morning to get the paperwork going because you need to dump 200 pounds of worthless man-flesh from around your NECK.
His solution is that I should just please him even if I don’t feel like it. It is my duty as his wife.
I actually laughed when I read this. Does this fool listen to himself when he talks? Did Gamer Dan have his really cool gaming headset on when he imparted these magical words of wisdom to you?
I just have one question for you. Why are you IGNORING the fact that you have no respect for him at all
? Why can't you face the truth of how you really feel and stop trying to pander to him? Are you financially dependent on him or something and need to stay with him? Is that why you're trying so hard to overlook the obvious????
All I can say is I hope your counselor OPENS YOUR EYES to accepting how you really feel. I don't understand why you're trying so hard to do what's no longer natural to you. Good luck to you.