I don't know if you remember me and my story. I have been married for 10 years, 2 kids, he was abusive, I got a restraining order against him. Now we are in the middle of a nasty divorce. He already moved on and has another relationship. He doesn't care about the kids, he rarely comes to see them. He blames me for the failure of the marriage. Lately I realised he is using my mother's fb account to check me up. I noticed this because my mum is never on fb and she has a very easy password. Someone used my mother's account to see my stories. It can only be my ex. Why does he do it? Does he still care? Or is just pure curiosity? I am wondering and a part of me wishes he still cared for me and the kids...
I would suggest you close all of your social media
accounts. No online activity until past your divorce.
In your post you said he was abusive, and you got a
restraining order against him. He blames you for the
marriage failure also. He could be stalking you online.
Trying to figure out where you are going, with who or
anything else he can. Keep the restraining order in place!!
If your kids go to school make sure he cannot pick them up
without your permission. He may already have another relationship,
but he may ( I hope I am wrong!! ) be the type that just will not let it go.
Nasty divorce and all.
I do not mean to alarm you but better to be safe when dealing with this
type of individual. The kids will grow up and understand who has always
been there for them. (YOU ) They always do.