If you are looking to learn how to find another wife or even a long-term relationship there are going to be a few things very off-putting. Most men and women here have changed since their divorce. They have had to go through a period of dating a number of folks and figure out who they are today. We aren't the same as we were in the past, even the fairly recent past.
No, I can't say I am looking for any sort of relationship. I think I am getting better at lying to them, lying with them, then sending them back into the wild. As I said, a good moral compass is not rewarded in society so if you need to survive in the wolf den, you have to act like a wolf.
I think a LOT of relationships survive on lies so its not like I am that out of line. People lie about cheating, being happy, finances, work, etc, etc. Especially lie when taking vows. They don't mean anything these days. I grew up in a model family/home so seeing the real BS that occurs was quite an eye opener.
Mr. Married is a prime example of outward showcasing. It all works great until that one foundation brick crumbles. Seen and heard it many times. People are all "he/she is so great. I am so lucky, I am so blessed, yada yada".... Then next week there is a scandal and they are circling the drain. What is typical is the woman is SOOOO happy because the man has a good job, brings her plenty of cash, doesn't make her work.... Then the day comes that he loses his job and cannot find one even close to his previous overpaid salary. She first acts like it will be OK, but once they sell her new Escalade, she starts doing some thinking.....
But this is the same for men. They work until they get in a good financial position, buy some fancy stuff, then women check him out, and he just can't pass up the temptation. Get a few hookers on the side.
I know one friend who has an atty for a dad. Went to his batch party at a remote cabin. His dad (married) had his personal limo deliver his personal hooker to him out there. I guess I don't have room to talk anymore though.....lol