Re: What a bleak picture to relationships this forum brings....lol
No, lonely is not the word, bored is why I visited, and I mentioned that in my first post. Lonely implies seeking "somone" imo. I just find things to do. I think I mentioned here before that I get bored. Only responses were "do voluneer work" or "join a club".... I mostly stay busy fixing things for people for free.
I did not visit to "bash women". I have my own personal views of them, and I realize there are several anomalies that exist. I am certain I would just start a verbal fist fight for sharing my irrelevant views anyway.
What has occurred to me is all the extra time I have. I don't have to wipe child noses, take a woman to her 500 doctor appts, go to family functions, birthdays, etc, etc, etc. My god, I get stressed just thinking about it. Its funny when a friend says "oh we have 3 birthdays to get to today, and still have to get the grass mowed, what are you doing today?" I get to reply with "sleep most of the day, then maybe do a light jog with my dog"
I just don't think people today even see the bussle they try to handle on the daily, and for no real reason at all.
Though I have realized doing everything alone can suck, the alternative is be psycho busy with "life". I usually just need someone to hold something, a tape measure, or whatever. It crosses my mind when working by myself many miles from anyone. If something happens to me, I am pretty well screwed, but I guess life is a gamble. I think old age is what might pull people together most. You break a hip, you better have someone around to wipe your azz, or plenty of cash to hire that done..... I am just praying on family history that i don't have to ride the bull that long. grandpa died at 69.